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Why Is He Doing This Now?

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Ok. This guy (my neighbor) and I have been hanging out for awhile. For the first 2 1/2 weeks everything was cool. We held hands, kissed, talked for hours every night, he called me beautiful ext. and we hung out alot. He introduced me to his friends, and his friends seemed to like me. we hung out twice for couple hours. (So I don't think that could have been the problem.) we did something together after his friends also.The last time we talked he called me and was all nice and saying i'll talk to you later. But Now, he hasn't called for 11 days. And i don't understand how we can go from hanging out and talking all the time to not even talking anymore. He would say i could call him whenever, but i am not big on that because i feel like i might be bothering him when he is out with friends and stuff. I thought we could atleast be friends, and i told him that too. What do you think? Its kind of hard to get over this because he is my neighbor, so I see him outside. And i don't understand why he would do this. Just quit calling when he knows that I wanted him to be straight forward and honest with me if something was bothering him. My last bf that i had quit calling also. I think to scared to actually tell me what he thinks too. But this was different, we were friends. But what should i do? Let him get away with never having to talk to me and tell me what went wrong?

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  1. You should ask him what's wrong or something.


  2. this has happened to me before. it really sucks. you should call him up and talk to him about what is going on. it wouldnt be bothering him. if he said that you could call him when ever then do it. dont let this ruin being his friend still

  3. see, there are two things i hate about girls when it comes to such things..

    one is, if i say you can call anytime it means you can call anytime.. so do it!  sometimes i feel bad that i have to be the one to initiate all the conversations, it makes me feel like i'm forcing the issue and you don't really want to talk to me..

    second of all, if you really care about me than you would get over your own fear of rejection and call me.. see what's up... if i'm sad, and i'm bothered by something i may not feel up to calling you.. but if you care about me than you should at least be able to call and find out how i am doing...

    someone didn't STOP calling you, they just wished you would call them..

  4. WE ARE HOMEGROWN IN ARIZONA, SCOTTSDALE!!!!

    AKA JB TOWN!!lolz

    WE HATE RIP CURL AND TO THEIR CREEPY STALKER EMPLOYEE WHO HATES THE JB ... get a ******* life. (and a better job)

    WE HATE MILEY AND MANDY __ WERE SO GLAD NICK DUMPED UR ***!!!!!! AND MOVED ON TO SO MUCH BETTER... SELENA GOMEZ AHAHAHAHA U R A s**t MILEY. BTW...

    I bet you that they shop at RIP CURL ... LAME! Miley is a S****y little wannabe selena gomez (afterall she copied her video blog) and how old is mandy like 69??? She obv. uses miley for her money and fame... GROW UP!!!

                                JB RULE!!!

  5. paragraphs.

  6. if you want to find out the answer. since he's your neighbor...you should walk straight over there and ask him personally.

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