Why Is She LIke This?

Question

Why my sister in law is always trying to talk bad about her own brother to me who is my own my husband. She always tells me that he never loved his ex wife and he is the one who left her ‘cause he never loved her and that my husband is so selfish, and that I should leave him ‘cause I deserve better. My husband is not prefect but he is not a monster either and he is very sweet to me and to our son and doesn’t want have anything to do with his ex wife or daughter ‘cause they always talk bad about me and about our child. Also we sent pictures of our family vacation to her she told me that you showing to much skin. She is not friend with his ex they don't even talk.

Answer 1

So, he doesn't want to have anything to do with his daughter, and that's OK with you?  So if, heaven forbid, the two of you should ever break up, and he got with still another woman and got her pregnant, and you didn't like it and said so, would you also be OK with it if he decided he didn't want to have anything to do with you or your son because you talked bad about him?  Because, that's what you're saying.  You're saying it's perfectly fine for him to abandon a child if he simply dislikes something his child's mother says.  Seems wrong to me.

Answer 2

she is a prejudious.

Answer 3

Who knows sweety, what i think it is though really, is that she is jelouse or has something against her brother. So, have you tried talking to your husband about this? Youre being normal!! But the sister needs to lay off, and i advise you to tell your husband whats going on, how it makes you feel and tell her also that you are grateful for her honesty about her brother, but that is your husband she is bad mouthing, he is your family and you dont want to tolerate that

Answer 4

She`s unhappy and wants him to be also. She is jealous that she can`t find a mate and says these things to try and break you up so you both can be as miserable as she is.

Answer 5

If you can't see something wrong with him not wanting to have to deal with his own daughter from a previous marriage, then I don't think there is anything a person can tell you to knock him off his pedestal. It's one thing for him not to like his ex, but to totally not deal with his daughter speaks volumes about his character.  

Answer 6

She is jealous of you and that her brother loves you more than he loved all the woman in his life and she doesn't like him happy or putting your 1st stay a way from her.

Answer 7

Next time she talk about it tell her please lets not talk about my life en my husband i would appreciate if u change the topic.

Its not her business he should shut up

Answer 8

maybe she's jealous?  misery does love company...

Answer 9

He wants nothing to do with his daughter? What a scumbag.

Divorces are never easy on children and I would *never* abandon my son. I love my son and I would do whatever it took to work out any issues.

It seems his sister may have a point.

Answer 10

Sounds like your sister in-law has major issues. Most of the time this happens because she is jealous of either her brother or your self. Sometimes of the situation in general. I s she married how's her relationship? She sounds like a nasty evil person. Don't let it get to you live your life to the fullest. Sounds like your husband and u have a pretty nice and stable relationship don't let her ruin this. Try not to get in it u might not thin so but deep inside your husband might be hurt because of what his sister is doing and u don't ever want to be  blamed to  this let him handles his own battles just be supportive.

Answer 11

Maybe she really believes it and she likes you and seen what happened in the last relationship and doesn't want to see it happen to you but on the same note if you are happy she needs to mind her own business.