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Why Married men have s*x with other women?

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My husband slept with another woman. When I ask him why he did that he has no answer.

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  1. Yeah, it's simply because THEY WANT TO, and that's it. That's why anyone does it, man or woman. It isn't the other person's fault, it's the fault of the person who cheated. They do it because they want to, because they are all about instant gratification, and they can try and blame it on all kinds of emotional or psychological things but that is all bullshit. They do it because they want to.


  2. It makes them feel wanted, attractive, i think is a thrill to do it knowing is not appropriate.. kinda like breaking the law.

    Sometimes i think it may be stress,, the affair makes them get away from reality, responsibilities etc for awhile.

    Men can separate physical connection from emotional/spiritual connection...meaning he may love you to pieces but still can have s*x with someone else and say it was only s*x no feelings involved.

    I also think men are not really meant to be monogamous.

    They have a higher sexual drive than females too, and enjoy fantasy more,, that's why they are drawn to pornography, stripper clubs ,etc.

    They don't watch the same p**n movie over and over either,,, they like variety there too.

    You'll drive yourself crazy if you try to interpret the reasons behind what he did, you can't be a detective either.

    His behavior is not unusual though it does shows lack of commitment and no sympathy for your heart.


  3. maybe you might find a similar answers to your question if you ask yourself why would a married woman have s*x with another man?  

  4. the MAIN reason a man drifts into an affair, or cheating as its called, is s*x. He is not getting enough of what he feels is "something new" at home. Its the newness. If a man is getting all the emotional support at home, as in making him feel like a man, proud, all that stuff that feeds the male ego, ....along with all the s*x, new things, surprises, kinky , or whatever! ...he will not stray. Highly unlikely.

    This is why so many people do not understand that making a marriage work, is WORK. It takes ALOT Of effort on both parties, but i think even more so on the wife, as there is a lot more "support" she needs to provide the "male mind".

    So it can be several things, but they all come down to, these things, one or several, being absent in the home.

    good luck to you

    also, once a cheater always a cheater, please leave him!

  5. I am a third time married man.....never cheated.  MADS got the answer.

  6. Because the answer is too painful.  For a man, there is nothing more exciting than having s*x with a new woman.  That is the painful truth.  A married man is supposed to acknowledge this and just move on.  There is more to life than new *****, but immature men or those who lack impulse control can't do it.

  7. b/c they are jerks. I'm sorry that happened to you!

  8. cause the other girl makes him hot n horny...  makes him lust...  you asked...    when was the last time you made him want you like that???  

  9. They don't know what they have until its gone...


  10. What continent your talking about?

  11. Because he is a jerk. He is selfish and only cares about himself. He only cares about his wants and needs and has no care for anyone else. He doesn't have an answer because he may not even know why he did it.  He just did.  Sometimes there doesn't have to a reason except for those stated above.

  12. No one can tell you why HE did it.....

    There are many reasons....

    Scared or mortality, scared of bordom,

    what ever the reasons, they are for both men AND women....

    its a discusting thing that people do, both me and my husband have an agreement, if i catch him i....cut them off.... if he catches me....he cuts mine (b***s) off....we know nothing will come of this threat cause we love to make love every (almost) day... We are married, God praises us for this love....

    Imagine, everyday, full of luv, and no guilt, no wonder everyone wants it....

  13. Cause he's a man that's why.

    Its their nature to cheat.

    You probably wasn't putting out enough.

    That's why i started having affairs cause my husband wasn't giving me enough s*x

  14. married men cheat for the thrill of it,and he has a answer for it the problem is he isnt man enough to give it to you

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