Why Would Anyone In Their Right Mind Date Someone Who Was A Dirty Lying Cheat?

Question

Some people are idiots, none more so than the people who date a person who is lying and cheating on their partner. If they can lie and cheat on their partner then they will have no problems or issues with lying and cheating on you to eventually.

You reap what you sow.

Answer 1

It's because they are not in the right frame of mind

Answer 2

they date them because "they are different.  <The Cheat> *really* loves them and not the person they are with and they would *never, ever* mistreat them like that."

they are out of touch with reality and then whine and cry about how used they were later.

Answer 3

It makes them feel superior or maybe they just like them.  When someone cheats, there is always a push from home as well as a pull from outside it.  I have been in all thre situations, but it never turns out for the best.

Answer 4

You have the tact of a sledge hammer there Dr. Freud!!!

Ever considered going into counseling?

Answer 5

Soooooooooo very, very true!

I've never been able to understand what compels anyone to cheat.  Why bother getting married if you don't have the ability to keep the vows?

Answer 6

this is no accounting for stupidity.  cheating on a spouse/significant other is a charcater flaw and speaks of a person with no morals or ethics.

Answer 7

there are people like that out there! Sad I know,  but some people will stay with a person like this just to have a person in their lives. There are people that can turn a blind eye to this kind of deceipt - I personally couldnt but then again I have this thing called self respect!

xx

Answer 8

some people just have low self worth, and she or he will wake pu one day.

Answer 9

So, your partner cheated on you?  Those who are cheating with someone else's partner, about 50 percent of the time are not looking for someone in their life.  They just want the s*x, small conversation and money they might be sapping from the person they are cheating with.  I have messed with guys that had someone and trust me, I didn't want them because they were lying cheating dogs.  But I was also a teen and in my early 20's so I didn't know what I wanted or how to hold on to my morales, but I do know for sure that I did NOT want them.

Answer 10

Feel Better?  

Answer 11

because people believe they have the power to change other people.  i wonder why they don't use those same "powers" on themselves!

Answer 12

I agree with you completely.

Answer 13

I agree!

Answer 14

I would never date a cheat - I don't like second hand goods.  That said, like most people, I have been cheated on and it hurts.  However, I have binned them immediately and never looked back - even if they have begged for forgiveness.  You will always be miserable being with a cheater - you will never be able to metaphorically speaking, kick your shoes off and relax in the relationship.  

Answer 15

well done shambo, your move to this section is almost seamless

Answer 16

I totally agree with you.

If they cheat to be with you they will cheat on you!!!!

You are one smart cookie!

Answer 17

I totally agree. However, some of these people might be looking for a fling with the cheater and not want a relationship that this cheater is obviously totally inept in providing.

Answer 18

Normally I would agree with you, but my fiance cheated on his ex wife numerous times, and I can tell you with complete certainty that he would not do that to me. I know, you are thinking "this women is a moron" but he was not in love with his wife, they got married because she got pregnant. He has been in love with me since high school and we are close to 30 now. Even when he was married he called me, but I wouldn't talk to him. We have been together for 3 years and he spends every minute that he isn't working with me and he calls me from work and texts me all day. Also, I cheated on almost every boyfriend I have ever had, I know I am a horrible person and trust me I got what I deserved for that, but I know that I would never cheat on my fiance. I love him so much and I could never even think of cheating on him. So normally I would have agreed with you, and in many cases I still do, but for me I know that this is not the case.

Answer 19

Well, my bigamous husband's new 'wife' is with him for the money.

Answer 20

People tend to believe only what they want to believe.  They live in this fantasy world where they believe they would never cheat on them.  What comes around goes around...karma is a *****  

Answer 21

If they did they must be mad!!!

Answer 22

Don't you ever watch cops? This happens mostly because the girl (most cases) is scared of her spouse, and doesn't want to leave them because she feels if she does, then she will get hurt, and he will come after here.  Its a domestic dispute and will constantly happen until the women step up for themselves and "man-up".

Answer 23

Sometimes the cheaters have very appealing physical traits and can be good manipulators. My ex was soo handsome and that totally made me blind to his true nature because he lied so well and looked so innocent. I eventually caught on to his games but I couldn't understand the women that went out with him knowing he had me and a baby at home. Where were these women's hearts. I would never do that to another woman and her family.

Answer 24

In some cases, love conquers all. However, if it were me in those shoes, I would not tolerate a dirty lying cheat.

Answer 25

Yes. However, dirty lying cheats are very good actors to begin with and they like to pick on the vunerable. Ideally someone who has recently been hurt and needs some "Lurve" .....

I agree. How can anyone in their right mind date someone who is or was a dirty lying cheater.

EDIT LOL.. Dear dear Brianna.(below) In 3 years He's probably already cheated on you many a time. Once a cheat . ALWAYS a cheat. Numerous times on his wife... ? WAKE UP AND SMELL THE COFFEE. It is only a matter of time for you.

Answer 26

I agree with you, but I think what happens is that some people are so full of themselves and conceited, that they actually think the dirty lying cheat won't do that with them because they're so much better than the person who got cheated on before by the dirty lying cheat.  Know what I mean?  

Answer 27

Maybe the person knows their partner is lying and cheating, and tolerates it because their self-esteem is so low, they would be willing to put up with it just so they won't be alone.

Maybe financially, it's better the couple stay together.

And maybe the person figures if their partner is out having s*x with others, then they don't have to put out because their partner sucks in bed.

We all have our levels of tolerance.

And some times you can shake your head wondering, why, why, why?

Answer 28

n00bs roflcakes

Answer 29

Crazy people do crazy things.

It really is that simple.

Answer 30

crazy ppl do ver crazy things!

Answer 31

I believe it because of lust they have for that person.