Why a married women with 4 kids she is 42 would chead her husband ?

Question

Why a married women with 4 kids she is 42 would chead her husband ?

Answer 1

Have you asked her the reason why she cheated?? Have you 2 really set down and had a heart to heart talk ?? You guys need to have a serious talk about the relationship and see what you can do to set your romance on fire again and not take each other for granted nor get yourselves set into a routine. Your lives sound like you go to work each day and she stays home with the kids all day and you come home from work and plop on the sofa and watch tv and she does dinner and gets the kids ready for bed and then you 2 don't spend any quality time together. Do something spontaneous with her and her with you. Something just for the 2 of you and not involve the kids. And NO don't go asking the kids questions like the one person said to. Neither of you need to involve your kids That would be the worse thing either of you could do.  You and your wife need to work thru this and not invole the childern.

Answer 2

possible reasons for the cheating is :

a) feeling:  her new boyfriend is more caring and loving compared to her husband,

b) outlook: her new boyfriend is richer or masho guy,

c) others:  her husband cheated on her first.

Answer 3

Most likely because she is not feeling loved by her husband. The number of kids doesn't count toward making her feel loved. That just means there has been a lot of s*x. s*x does not equal love or feeling wanted and loved. A woman needs to feel desired and maybe her husband just isn't doing that anymore. It is also possible due to the age that she is feeling old and if she isn't feeling that she is attractive to her husband, she might just go looking someplace else to feel like she is attractive and young again.

  EDIT: The s*x reason for cheating is a mans response. Men and women cheat for different reasons. Typically a woman cheats for emotional reasons and men are more likely to cheat because the s*x isn't good.

Answer 4

usually its not too hard to figure out. maybe ask the kids what mom complains to dad about all the time. i bet they can tell ya

mom gets mad when you drink

mom doesnt like it when your a disgusting pig

mom has been asking you for years to fix the faucet...your a plumber!

ect ect ect

one can only take so much...

Answer 5

Sometimes people don't realize the weight of the decisions they are making until it is too late. This is no excuse. Sometimes however people just aren't happy with their current life situation and need to have a change or rebel. It doesn't necessarily mean she does not love her husband, it may just mean she needed something more, or made a rash decision. I'm in no way saying cheating is okay. I hope this helps. And if you are the husband I hope that things work out, and you mend things with your wife. If you are one of the children I am so sorry, and whatever is going on is an issue your parents need to deal with and it is in no way your fault. If you are the person this women is having an affair with shame on you! I doubt she is going to leave her family for you, and even though it was her responsibility to be true to her husband you were obviously not a good influence.

Answer 6

Maybe because the husband isnt giving her enough satisfaction if you know what I mean.. Thats one of the main reason they do that. Even tho its sad for the family..

Answer 7

I'm assuming with 4 children you have been married for awhile. I'm sure the wife got bored and cheated because this other person made her feel the way you once did but possible don't anymore because after a couple of years you get into a routine and dont take time to keep the romance alive.