Why abortion?

Question

I understand that people have financial difficulties and so forth but there is absolutely no excuses to abort a child or to give the child up for adoption, so why would people do this??

If you don't feel like you can cope with a child why get pregnant in the first place?? Can't you get condoms were your from?? I really would love to understand this and please be aware that I am NOT being nasty to anyone I am simply curious.

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Answer 1

You're certainly entitled to your opinion. However, you don't get to decide what another woman does with her own body. If a woman gets pregnant, that is between her and her partner...not you, and not anyone else. What she decides to do with her body is also her business...and hers alone. You may not think there is an excuse for abortion or adoption (which are separate issues, by the way), so you can make that decision for yourself ONLY.

I'd be interested to know how old you are and if you've ever been faced with an unexpected pregnancy.

Answer 2

Let me tell you why abortions?

promiscuity have poison the life's of many girls they think that an abortion is the thing to do and they do it over and over they don't think of using protection because they don't think that they will get pregnant and wen it happens they go to the easy way out

they get rid of it until the next time=

I wounder if wen they se a baby is there any remorse? I honestly don't think so= I'm not bashing any one is just my way of thinking

Answer 3

I got pregnant when I'd been happily married for 11 years, using 'reliable' birth control.  I wasn't planning another child.   Pregnancies happen, despite our best efforts to prevent them.   I wouldn't abort or adopt out any child of mine.

But your judgemental attitude serves no-one and condemns people you don't even know.

Answer 4

Birth control does fail.  Even surgical sterilization has been known to fail, it's documented in medical literature.  So, if no form of contraceptive is completely effective, unplanned pregnancies are going to happen despite people trying to prevent them.

I'm a little confused by your question.  You're asking why abortion? Why adoption? And why do people get pregnant?  People have s*x, pregnancies happen, and people have to decide what to do.  I suppose you could demand people not have s*x in the first place to avoid any potential issues, but I doubt that's ever going to happen.

Answer 5

Have you ever been in the situation?  If not there is no reason for you to judge anyone else.  Things happen!  What if you were raped?  What would you think then? Maybe you can't have children and are jealous of those who can.  What if you wanted a child so badly and couldn't?  Where would you be if there was no option to adopt?  Thats right without a child!!!!

Answer 6

better than killing it!

Answer 7

I agree with the first girl who commented. Its absurd to think that pregnancy can never happen. I know ppl who have used condoms AND birth control and still got pregnant. What they do with their body is none of your concern. You can worry about abortion and adoption (which i think is a wonderful thing to do, because so many couples out there cant have children) when the times comes.

Answer 8

I agree there are too many people who want to adopt and I've known dozens of women who regretted their decision to abort  (all after 5ys). I've never known one who wishes they did instead of having the child!

Why is s*x outside or marriage so important? It isn't until you have it and you don't die with out it?

Answer 9

You can't judge unless you are in that persons shoes, each situation is different. And if they want to give it up for adoption what is wrogn with that. Things happen, they didn't kill it, they gave it to a family who wanted kids. I see NOTHING wrong with that.

Condoms break, birth control can fail(due to a lot of things) there is always a risk. the only for sure is to NOT have s*x at all. Do not judge unless you know their reasons.

Answer 10

Birth control fails.  

That is the answer, period.  There is no form of birth control, save for abstinence, that is 100% foolproof.

Abortion is not meant to be birth control, but a safe way to get out of an unwanted pregnancy.