Why all want to be diffrent from others though we are already differnt somehow?

Question

well ppl always want to become different and unique

and just in race of being different the completely

they lose there own unique identity

well why is so ? what makes them to act like this ?

Answer 1

A wise pimp once said, "You are special.  Just like everybody else."

Answer 2

Probably because standing out gets you noticed. You know that saying: "There's no such thing as bad publicity". Some people just can't let their actions speak for themselves and try to fast-track their way to notoriety.

Answer 3

It's the human race; what more do you expect.

Answer 4

I don't know,

maybe because we want to stand out

Answer 5

It's not so much about being different I think it's more about finding oneself which is really more about defining who you are as an individual.  

Answer 6

The irony is if you try to be different than everyone else, you become just like everyone else who wants to be different.  So the only way to really be different is to strive to be the same as everyone else.  That's something that no one's doing.

Answer 7

We all just wanna be big rock stars and be popular. People do what others do to be popular then when you're 40 you no longer care what others think and become who you like best.  

It may take a while to figure it out.