Why am I ALWAYS the scapegoat?

Question

Ok maybe not a "scapegoat" but I'm the person everybody takes their problems out on, since like middle school and I just graduated High School.

For example, This boy faked this boys signature in my yearbook that claimed he liked me blah blah, and then acted like it was real, and I believed it. People thought it was "kind of mean."

Same kid participated in bringing my personal diary to school for everybody to view because they didn't like what I had written about them.

This girl last weekend at a "bon fire" decided to tell trhee times outloud and made fun of me concerning a personal "drug incidident" from like 4 months ago. She said it aloud for everyone to hear. I think she thought the guy she liked was looking at me or something.

I'm pretty and thin but dress like i'm from 1966 and I don't really give a c**p what people think of me or how I dress etc. I'm also not afraid to say anything, speak my mind.

Why am I always the victim?I'm always kind back too.

Answer 1

Some people just get satisfaction from being real a******s, and despite not caring what they say or think, there is not a lot you can do.

I went through some similar experiences though, and found that NOT saying anything often works the best.  They're waiting to see what kind of remark you're going to come up with next, so don't give them the luxury.  Acting like you're better than them by appearing too cool and nonchalant for their "childish games" is the way to go in those types of situations.

Answer 2

You "don't give a c**p" but then you ask why you're "always the victim?" It sounds like you're full of yourself and probably not a nice person to be around, and people are just treating you the way you treat them.  People don't like people who go around talking about how skinny and pretty and nice they are.

Answer 3

people are cruel and take advantage of nice people.People also are afraid of someone who isnt afraid to be theirself.I know I march to the beat of a different drummer.

Answer 4

Oh my God!!!

Answer 5

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