Why am I a lonely guy?

Question

Hi, Im a 16 year old guy, and Ive always been a shy person, but all of a sudden, now I just feel so lonely and wish I had a girlfriend. Ive never had one before and have been fine with it but now I dont know what it is, but i just feel like i need to have one. Can you help me figure out why I feel this way? Like i dont know if its my looks or something im 6'2'' and play sports and stuff like im really nice, but im just shy and need help on how to change it heres what i look like

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Answer 1

your really cute...

any girl would date u ?

............dont worry ul find a gf.....

Answer 2

maybe becouse you dont know how to talk to a girl!

Answer 3

dang ur hott! want my #?

Answer 4

oh wow! i dont see why you dont have a girlfriend! i would soooooo date u =]

Answer 5

You look perfectly fine.

I believe it's just 'cause you're shy.

Shyness is a big thing to overcome.

It comes from something deep inside.

There's books you can read to help.

Answer 6

Dude, I don't think your "looks and appearance" are a huge contributing factor to your "loneliness."

Don't judge a book by its cover.  Look at its contents first.

With that said, I'd say to try be more outgoing and spontaneous, and if not, just reveal more of your personality to others.  Once people see your true character, there's no reason for them not to befriend you, or even date you.

Looks can only get you so far since a dynamic relationship isn't built over appearances.  Personality and character are what get you far in life.

Answer 7

u r cute, but u r young like me so u just got to hang in there and wait for that right gurl. its hard but in the end its all worth it! gl

Answer 8

woah ur pretty hot, so it isn't ur looks.. it's probably the shy-ness. we girls don't like to make the first move, and some girls, like me, get tired of waiting for the guy and so we just move on.. so you need to make ur move on the girl you like. just go for it :)

Answer 9

i know most people have said this, but i think you just need to be more open to things and not as shy

girls, me being one, don't like when they have to make the first move, so if you do make a move, it shows you are confident and that's a major turn on

so just be yourself and ask some girls and guys to hang out

a group date is a LOT easier than a single so go for that

and your very attractive so I wouldn't doubt if you had an easy time getting a girl once you learn to become more open

hope i helped:)

<3 Carly

Answer 10

i dont noo why ur hott

i would date u in a heart beat

Answer 11

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dont worry, its not your looks, your gorgeous. and from what i can tell its not your personality either! maybe its your approach....

do you like anyone right now? you have to make the first move. girls are intimidated by a guy if they dont think they can reach them <3

so just be yourself and hang out with the girl/s your interested in :]

Answer 12

It definetely isnt the look cos You are cute alryt.

Try making conversations with girls you just simple ones it will give you a good start. Good luck :D

Answer 13

sometimes its tuff 2 get by the shyness, and if it helps girls go thru this 2.

get involved with some community or school activities. ur looks arent a prob, so by getting involved in something other then sports where u hang out with guys u can meet girls. by enjoying something that is co-ed u can meet girls and by working 2gether on something they can see the kind of person u r. it will b great personal growth and who knows that gf maybe in ur near future.

get involved, u'll feel better and u will b rewarded by meeting new and different people, including girls.

its a start anyway, :o) and i hope i helped .

Answer 14

i think you should go ahead and make a move on a girl you like or whatever. youre cute so i dont think its your looks keeping you back. you just need to actually talk to girls.

Answer 15

nahh, its probably not your looks. i think you look cute.

just try to be a little more outgoing and talk to some girls in your class. your not going to get a girlfriend over night. it takes time.

either way you don't need a girl to make you happy. just let things happen when they happen. don't rush it because the best relationships aren't rushed.

Answer 16

awww ur cute you shouldnt be lonelyy :]]

Answer 17

Your eyebrows are a bit thick...  other then that you are sooo hot! a great bod and wow  

Answer 18

i dont think your appearnace has anything to do with it ;), but maybe you need to put yourself out there more. stop looking for a girlfriend and just talk to girls and have fun, eventually a girl will come your way, good luck :)

Answer 19

Ahh, You're Cute.

: D

Just Be Friendly.

Talk To Girls, Ask Them To Hang Out.

It's Just That You're Growing Up.

Most Guys Don't Care About Girls When They're 12 & Under.

Answer 20

I think you're really cute and handsome :)!

Girls sometimes feel shy talking to guys, so you should make the first move! Don't put the girl under pressure though :)

Can you answer my question? I know it's about hair and you're a guy, but I thought maybe you could help me? Thanks! Here's the link: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...

Answer 21

get a hoe if your lonely lol or get a my space and talk to people on there  

Answer 22

your act. cute

Idk just talk to some girls they probably wont reject you

Answer 23

if you want to meet girls, mabey have a BCH of freinds gt together at the local pool, and invite some girls, tell them to invite some girls.  it would be a blast and a great way to meet girls.  

mabey go bowling! taht is a lot of fun too. invite a girl that you are comfortable talking too and tell her to bring a couple of her friends :)

Answer 24

it's ok that you haven't had a girlfriend yet. i just got my first boyfriend and i'm fifteen. i felt pretty lonely until i met him. you're pretty cute, but try and be more open to girls. i know its hard when you're shy, but talking to them is part of the key. and try not to ignore a girl you're interested in when you're in front of you're friends. trust me. we don't like that too much.

=]

Answer 25

YOU'RE EFFING HOT!!!!!

Lets date ahahaa

xox

Answer 26

I know plenty of guys that are shy. U seem like another one of those. It takes alot of courage to start a relationship. But it will come trust me. Alot of girls think shy guys r cute. (and ur not bad looking at all!)

Answer 27

Lonely dude....you have to understand that if you are lonely it shows in everything you do and makes you seem vulnerable and desperate.  Are you confident in the sports you play if yes remember that when you chat with chicks.  This is what girlz like confident dudes like you.  keep your clothes & shoes clean and all the chicks will love you.  Got it!