Why am I always the one that ends up heartbroken?

Question

Ever since I began dating I've just been broken hearted.

I got used for a year by a guy I was so in love (or maybe it was lust) with and he made out that we would get somewhere but we never did and I would just get used every weekend and then he would text me for a bit. Then I came to realise he was a waste of space and stopped myself from seeing him.

It took me 6 months to get over him. I then met another guy. He was gorgeous and I was just so happy that he had chosen me out of all the girls out there he could pick from. Turns out he was playing me and was only trying to get in my pants.

I then met a guy that was PERFECT. We could make each other laugh and just loved being with each other but when he asked me out 3 times I said no because my friend liked his friend and I felt bad that she wasn't going out with her guy. Things then just went funny between the lot of us and my friends guy got a girlfriend and now ive just seen that the guy I liked is back with his ex and has her in him screen name.

I'm just so upset and feel like I have no one to talk to because my friend just says boys are d***h**** and doesn't really comfort me and I just feel like crying but the tears wont come out. I don't know whats wrong with me, he was the first guy that ever treated me right and I missed it and I just feel distraught.

Answer 1

Maybe you are too good for these guys anyway!

Answer 2

try not to be so focused on men, there is one out there somewhere for you but you may have to wait for the right one.  in the meantime find something else in life to get interested in.  it seems you also consider others before yourself, and when they let you down you take it to heart, so be a bit selfish and concentrate on you and what you want.  but most importantly do not compromise your standards just for the sake of having someone.  ok.