Why am I always the "just a Friend" ?

Question

Not that being the just a friend is bad

But some time's girls tell me thing's b4 they tell there BF and i have to keep it secret or worse they never tell them oh boy THAT is not fun

Answer 1

You are probably non-threatening and not very aggressive.  Women look at guys like that as friends.  

Answer 2

oh boy?

Wow, that answers the question right there. You need to toughen up. You are just a friend because that is what you let them make you. You might need better girls to hang around. That could be the problem. What type of group do you hang out with? I'm going on a limb here to say you are still in high school.

Do you play any sports? Ever heard of playing the tough guy card? You are the go-to gossip guy. Quit being like that. You can listen to what a girl says, but don't seem to invest interest in it.

Answer 3

lmao

with out guys like u us girls would go nuts!

Answer 4

hmmm...

im sorry for you!

were the same..

and im a girl and ive been an ALWAYS FRIEND..

though it hurts my feeling i have to accept the fact and move on..

sorry but some girls are like that..

i think they are used to have some advice becoz you are a boy and there bf is a boy so they think they have a connection with you!

just continue but if it hurts stop being a friend and be a BOYFRIEND

hope ive helped

Answer 5

Probably you need to make the move earlier, or else girls will consider you as a close guy friend.  

Answer 6

You have proved that you keep your word and don't tell secrets. If it becomes to much, tell them you don't want to know some of the stuff, because it is getting to hard not to tell.   I married my best friend, so hang in there, your friendship might turn into the real thing.  

Answer 7

because you're a listener probably and that's a VERY good thing. Great people do more listening but talking.

Thing is not everyone can listen to people without talking, some people actually talk a lot about their personal things and then people talk back after knowing these things. The know about someone and don't let him know much about you.

Answer 8

see the positive thing about it...