Why am I annoyed everytime my wife doesn't speak?

Question

I know women always have a different frame of mind due to their imbalance of hormones, they can be happy at times then after a while sad. The problem is I am annoyed with this.Like one day we were in the dinner table with the kids,it was only I and the kids who joke around and do the talking while she was just there only talks when talked to. If I asked her for any problems she always answer in the negative.So I went out with the kids after dinner to avoid this senseless attitude of hers then return back ready for bed.. I am really irritated to see her like this.....

Answer 1

Mr. Annoyed,

Do you remembe the times that you loved her and could not get enough of being with her. So now you have kids and  are annoyed by the things she says. What you have is a problem in the communications dept. If you two keep it up you will not have a wife and the kids will be the ones living in two diffrent homes. You should get help and start talking to her and let her know that you are there and you will do everything to show her that you love her and care about her. She feels neglected and more annoyed by the fact that you and the kids are doing things without her.

You can not clap with one hand or There are always two sides to a story. You are as much at fault as she is in this relationship. Work it out for the kids.

Answer 2

You should give her some space, especially when her 'time of month' comes. Maybe something is making her feel uncomfortable, or maybe something is troubling her?

Sit her down and have a friendly chat with her, and ask her if everything is okay.

Answer 3

for the same reason i get annoyed that my husband doesn't answer me when i ask him a question. we all want to be heard and want to be noticed. and want to know that your loved one is at our beck-en call . we all need to feel wanted and loved and that someone is listening to our every word. she makes you feel unimportant doesn't she

will that is the same way i feel  

Answer 4

She's the problem, not you. If she won't open up, then she's just being uptight with a bad attitude, tell her to seek help or this relationship isn't going to last.

Answer 5

dude did you think she might be depressed?? from what you wrote she seems kind of sad. talk to her and try to understand WHY she's acting that way!

Answer 6

Maybe it's something else, talk to her and ask her what's wrong.  Let her know how you feel and how her attitude is hurting you and the kids.  I'm preety sure that when she knows this, she'll open up with you to tell you what's wrong.  Good Luck, he, you are a very nice husband for understanding her.

Answer 7

if she's anything like me, a working mom with 5 kids, she's probably very preoccupied. I'm also thinking about the chores I have to do, the bills that need to be paid, and other things. She's probably just thinking, instead of talking. I wouldn't worry about it, unless she seems clinically depressed, then she should see a doctor.

Answer 8

i do this sometimes when something bothers me or when i am frustated (generally). You have right to be annoyed because you act normally.

Ask her in a nice way if she wants to talk about it, if there is something wrong that you did or if someone else had done to her. Ask her many times and at the end she will end up telling you.  

Answer 9

I guess because it is annoying. Try touching her when that happens or hugging her. It will make you both feel so good!

Answer 10

Yeah. Loads of us are like that. Maybe there's something that's happening emotionally but the best thing to do is not to question her if it's very obvious she doesn't want to talk about it and cuddle up next to her on the couch or something. I'm sure there probably is something wrong because most women aren't in a bad mood so regally. Just let her enjoy the time with you and she'll forget about her worries.

Answer 11

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