Why am I like this?????

Question

Most people I know love the sun, summer, and daytime. They enjoy being in a group, going to the beach, drinking with friends, and just hanging out outside.

So...why do I enjoy being alone? I find the night most enjoyable, preferably 1-4 am, and I love when it rains...I prefer cold, as apose to warm anytime. I hate warmth. Why am I like this?

Answer 1

Woah, this is too wierd.  You sound very similar to me.

I like the winter, cold, night/dusk, rain/snow, being by myself mostly.

I hate the heat as well, my philosophy is that you can be nude, but still hot.. as opposed to if it's cold you can keep layering things on to keep you warm.  Maybe it's a relief of having control?

If you get an answer to this, let me know.   :P

Answer 2

Before  I replying just want you to know I am the person just like you.. seems you are not one.. yeah I like rainy day more than warmy or sunny .. and I like night time more than day ... like your examples... I dontknow what kind of personality you have but I know this is not so good.. I mean its maybe about psycological things or things like that..

but this is not so good my friend... maybe its your nature... your own world.. or the blood which ruins in your body like this... but you should know albert einstain was like you too ;)  

Answer 3

LOL i enjoy cold days too especially rainy days....it just give u the shook feeling...however i enjoy being with frens too...just relax and have fun with frens and u will find life easy to live =)

Answer 4

You are obviously happy with your own company and there is nothing wrong with that.  

As long as you are content with the way you are then you will always be at peace and enjoy the simple things in life, like the rain and the calm quite hours of the early morning.

As for the temperatures, your body adapts and feels more comfortable in the cold better than in the warmth, so it's really as simple as that.

To be satisfied with who you are and not follow the sheeple is to be very much admired in this day and age.

Answer 5

Hahahaha, You seem very similar to me. Others call us introvert or maybe loner but the important thing is we enjoy solitude. I even ask myself the same question, Why do i prefer to be alone while others love being accompanied by other people. Maybe it's our nature, People say that humans are social Animals but maybe some are not. I also prefer at 11:00 pm to 4:00 am,  the reason is it's so quiet that I can feel at peace with my mind. Let me guess your fears are social interactions, parties and social gathering. It doesn't matter , the important thing is we don't hurt someone and we are contented on what we do.

Answer 6

Because you are. And I don't see what you think think this is a problem. So you like people who are not like you and wa??? you feel out of place or something? Naw, there are more of us than you think. .  

Answer 7

I seem to enjoy alot of the same stuff you do.

You could do one of two things here in my opinion, consider yourself happy in your own skin or you can chose to go on trying to convince yourself that there has got to be a disorder for this.

Ask yourself this ?  ok.  Is anyone being hurt by your actions or the things YOU enjoy?

If not enjoy all that you can while you can!!

Enjoyment as you know it could disappear in a New York minute

Just because it's different doesn't mean it's wrong--different to me is having the courage to walk your own path.