Why am I not over him yet?

Question

So we have broken up about 2 years now. I went away on vacation and since I came back for the past 2-3 weeks all I keep thinking about is him Again. I am beginning to miss him really badly. And its really frustrating!

I been thinking of different reason as to why I feel the way I do. One reason was that when he broke up with me, we always entertain the hope that we would get back together and all this time as passed and nothing has happened.

At the same time 60% of me don't want to go back, but wants to move on from him but I feel like I have a something mentally blocking me from moving on.

What do you guys suggest?

How did you get over a lost love?

Answer 1

Sounds like when you broke up there was no closure. People need closure to move on. Talk to him on a mature level.. Over coffee but not as a date. Just be simple.. ask if he thinks you'll still get back together.. a "No" will be the best thing to get over him.