Why am I so depressed ?!???

Question

I'm unemployed backed up on my bills. I applied at 2 colleges but if I don't get accepted I'm screwd because it's to late to apply at the community college. Which means I would have to pay my parents rent which means I would have to move out because if I'm goin to be paying rent I need atleast freedom. My boyfriends broke and carless he's no help and I sometimes feel that he doesn't love me enough or care about me that much it makes mr feel so depressed I know everyone has problems but why do I feel so depressed what can help?

Answer 1

Marry some one rich LOL

Answer 2

Your life sounds like a mess, seriously.  Get yourself together.  Dump the boyfriend, get the bills paid, work and save some money and get you a.z.z. to school NEXT year since you've messed up this year.

Get yourself together.  You have no one to blame but you and don't expect anyone else to be in charge of your life.  YOU are the master of your own destiny and your own happiness.

Tell your parents you will pay them a nominal amount, it's the least they owe you if they haven't saved or helped you in any way, but if you are living with them now I suppose they make you pay rent since you haven't really accomplished anything.

If I charged my kids rent I would put it into a bank account for them and give it to them when they most needed it.  

These days however it costs a lot of money to pay bills and own a house so everyone should chip in.  Get off your duff and get cracking.  You can be depressed all you want nothing good will come of it so change your attitude and get out there and hustle.

Answer 3

I seriously and really think the reason why you are so depressed is because all of this stuff is coming at you.It's like one thing after another.I want to ask you,do you feel that your boyfriend loves you?Do you feel like he cares?If you don't think so and if he is adding to your depression then it's your choice to leave him or stay with him.You should pray to GOD about this.You might have depression or you might just be under stress.You should talk to GOD about this though.I think the reason why you feel so depressed is because there's so much stuff building up on you.You might have depression or you might just be under stress.Try to relax and don't feel so down about yourself.Well I hope that I answered your question or something.GOD BLESS you!

Answer 4

umm are you seriously asking why you are depressed... girl you have every right to be seems like you have a lot on your shoulders but hang in there things always seem to get better stay positive its the best you can do! :) good luck.

Answer 5

its not as bad as it seems. if you can't make it to college this year, you can go next semester. in the meantime, you could get a job. stay home with your parents in a nice safe environment and pay them a little rent. its ok. you can save the rest of your money. you will be glad to have it when you do start classes. I agree the boyfriend isn't helping your situation any. I think you can do better. So start looking out for yourself and planning your life. You are not stuck, you just may have to make some alterations to your original plan. Things will get better...just take control of the situation so you can move forward and then you will feel better.

Answer 6

um I would feel depressed too if I were you d**n.

thats what you call hard life everyone almost everyone goes through it unless you paris hilton, definition of hard life is not finding the right shades for the day

Answer 7

you need to deal with all these issues don't let them overwhelm you.

only you can decide on how to prioritise them, i mean do you want to work for a while and pay off the bills get your own place maybe a cheap car? then maybe go to college later ( i did this exact thing and it worked).

If your parents are reasonable people who you can talk to they may offer some help with making these decisions but you are the main one who needs to organise your own life.

Not being mean about your b/f, but no money, no car, no help

i think it might be time to say goodbye, we all need some goals no matter how small, has he any that you could work together on? if not tell him you need to follow your dreams, do it now while you are young as you don't want to waste your life good luck

Answer 8

i'm feel sorry that your parent didn't help u and ask to pay for rent,. My parent won't let me move out untill I got married, and i'm 19 didn't want me to pay anything. Anyway I know how u feel, U feel lonely and lack of love. Don't be depress if no one take care of u,  u must be strong a love yourself.