Why am I so easy????

Question

Im a 16 year old guy.

I've only had about 4 gf's and every one of them i start to like alot really fast, and when its over i take it pretty hard, like i cant sleep becuz i think about it and stufff.

Its not like i wanna be like this, it just happens. Please help.

Im doing it right now actually, the girl i really liked ended things today, is rly confusing becuz after she broke up with me she continued to say she liked me, but just wanted casual right now, which i dont rly like [iono why]. And now i cant lay down becuz we've been up every night this week for 5+ hours becuz she wanted to stay up all night on the phone. And now when i lay down i get a sick feeling and cant sleep. <- This girls different then the 2 before her, and the first one i couldnt even sleep in my room for like 6 months becuz of it.

Please help, and i dont want any 'ur a p***y' answers, i seriously wanna stop being like this.

Answer 1

you are girl crazy. just try to be more picky with your time and emotions and s*x.

Answer 2

Ur a p***y.

I&#039;m kidding, your an adolescent looking for something pure in a confusing world. You will eventually become much more. Be you, and no one else. Your great.

Just remember, the more you take risks, the more girls will speak to you, and date you, and eventually you won&#039;t ever sleep, because your next to your wife.

Answer 3

cuz u like them alot..  uneed to put ur foot down, put down rules like if u dont want to be with me them we cant talk for awhile,...u know??? and then u are young ... just ignore them IDK

Answer 4

Maybe you are coming on too strong like too serious too soon.If a girl isn&#039;t that into you she would be scared off. So if that is the case and she said &quot;she wants to be casual&quot; then back off.She may of just said she liked you so not to hurt your feelings or maybe she does like you but things are going too fast for her.Casual like friends?Then let it be like friends.Then start directing your energies into something else. You&#039;ll meet another girl and hopefully she&#039;ll like your attention. If they want space then give them space. But from my experience if a girl doesn&#039;t want you around then she&#039;s not into you. You&#039;ll find someone who is .Don&#039;t lose sleep over it. Maybe try meditation and then you&#039;ll fall asleep. Thinking about stuff over and over is what is keeping you up. Put people that are not for you out of your mind and think of something else .Thinking of them is torturing you and that is not helping you . If you get a thought of that person in your mind automatically think of something else.Alot of this is because of your age and wanting to be in love and be loved. It will happen .Pray that you will think straight and not be lead on.

Good Luck.

Answer 5

girls are cunniving little tramps... and we guys love them because of it. there&#039;s nothing you can do about liking girls, short of joining a monastery...

seriously, tho, spend more tme with your friends, family and God

Answer 6

I don&#039;t think you&#039;re easy. You just fall hard for someone and I get that. I think it&#039;s normal, some people are like that i.e.- myself. You&#039;re 16 and thats still young so I think in time things won&#039;t get to you as much, because as you grown you&#039;ll develop thicker skin, meaning you&#039;ll be able to deal with more...

Answer 7

you look for w/e you can get basicly. try to up your standerds and set grounds to what you will take.