Why am I so paranoid? HELP!

Question

Hi I am a stay at home mom of an 8 month old.

My fiance works makes all the money. Are relationship has finally improved he's more active with the baby, and he's making a big effort to not be so selfish.

Well im always paranoid he is cheating, he is a personal trainer and most of his clients r women, it doesn't bother but sometimes I get so insecure that I can not even function

I can't even have s*x without thinking he's been with some 1 else, I have no proof I've checked his phone an emails multiple times, he comes straight home 2 me n the baby every single day, and I still think such crazy thoughts

I have post partum depression and I take lexapro? Cud this cause such drastic paranoia?

Its driving me nuts!

How can I fix this and stop thinkin such negative thoughts

Answer 1

How is your trust level with your partner?

Have you talked this over with him, gotten all HIS input?

If you're both on the same page, it makes it a lot easier to communicate.  Tell him the problem is yours, not his, but you'd like to enlist his help to get over it.

Talking it out with him may help

Luck

Answer 2

The best way to fix this is to confront him about it.

If you keep asking other people for advise, your head will start spinning from all the possibilities.

From the sound of it, he seems like a decent guy, maybe it's just his job and the fact that he works with mostly women that's making you a bit uneasy?

Like i said, i suggest you just talk to him about it, i know it's not an easy topic to confront someone about but; it's your best bet.