Why am I so scared of s*x?

Question

I want to have s*x. The only thing is, I don't want people to see my v****a, for a couple of reasons. 1. When I shave i can't get all the hair, and it leaves red bumps and 2. I just don't.

I know I'm ready, and I just wish i could get more comfterble. Any advice on what to do?

Answer 1

Well, for the red bumps, you can try InGrow Go, by Skin Doctors.

As for being ready, you just have to find the right guy. everyone's nervous at first, but as long as you find someone you love and can trust, you won't feel so bad.

Answer 2

1. Just don't shave, guys don't really care about it.

2. When having s*x don't let the guy look at your v****a, but that him look at your butt or your breat instead, because most guys aren't interested in looking at v****a.  

Answer 3

Grow up and learn to accept your body as it is.   Guys won't care much if you're shaved or not, so if *you* don't like the red bumps and stuff, just stop shaving: little girls don't have hair there... women do.

Women's genitals all have the same parts, but just like faces, each is individual in the way the parts look.

There's a good page about female genital anatomy at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/v****a , and it shows both internal and external views of what's there, along with full descriptions of it all.

Some have big, puffy outer lips and tiny little inner ones that can't even be seen without spreading their legs and outer lips both... some have smallish outer lips and inner lips that stick out firmly from them or hang.  Some have one lip that's one shape/size and the other one is completely different.  Some have really big or really little clitorises.

Knowing and accepting your unique "genital geography" isn't something mothers usually pass along to their daughters... but it's something every woman should learn.

It's very unlikely that yours are *not* perfectly normal, and you should get to know them well and learn to love them.   They're a very important part of what it means to be *you*.

Answer 4

Your not ready for it or your just reliving the past of something bad

Answer 5

dont shave, just trim,

its no big deal, relax.

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Answer 6

It sounds like you aren't ready for s*x. You need to be comfortable enough with your partner to be able to feel like you can show them your entire body. (The shaving thing is completely normal by the way)

Don't rush it, and if you do end up doing it..be VERY careful, always use protection.

Answer 7

May be perhaps due to lack of proper understanding.

Answer 8

Hey!

just remember, every v****a looks the same. and no matter how it looks, the guy or girl wont care because they understand. Also, being hair is no problem, i was also scared too and the first time I had s*x, the guy didnt evenn seem to notice lol!

Hope i could help sweety.

Answer 9

dont be scared huni, everyones a bit worried about their first time no matter how condfient they r, wait to find the right guy

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