Why am I such a disappointment to my family?

Question

My relatives are disappointed because I am not popular and today my dad said I should be out getting drunk like other teenagers.

Why am I such a disappointment? should I just kill myself to save them further disappointment?

Answer 1

No, you should live with people who aren't harmful to your mental well being.

Answer 2

cause you killing youself will solve what? you need to get some friends and get out the house. there is a reality that you may never be someone that your family is prud of.. thats they're problem. It truely is. what kind of sane person would tell they're underage child, 'shouldnt you be out getting drunk with teh rest of the teenagers..." and if you actually were out doing drugs and getting drunk, you would STILL be a disapointment to them. "Why is it every freakin day i have to go and get you out of juvie.. i have a junkie for a son, i have a drunk for a son, i have a whatever for a son.. You see what i'm saying. Anyone who would tell they're child to do something like that isnt all that great of a parent to want to impress. What you dhould do is find love and happiness outside your dysfunctional home before you actually kill yourself because you dont feel what you should feel from soemone who might now be capable of showing you what you need. Anyone can have a child. it takes a special person to be a parent..

remember that when you feel this way.. it's not your fault.. your an innocent..

hope you feel better..  

Answer 3

I can't believe your family is disappointed in you! Obviously, you are intelligent enough to ask for outside help. Don't even think of killing yourself! That would be disappointing to everyone. Try eexplainingto your family that you are old enough to choose you life and if that means not going out and getting drunk or other teenage things huhurrayor you! If your family does not like you the way you are don't worry they'll get used to it. If they don't it is their loss, and the way it sounds you will turn out better than they are. Do not ever give up!

Answer 4

ask him if he wants you to do drugs, get your girfriend pregnant and become a loser, like most teenagers today?

he should be grateful  that you are mature enough , not to want to do that!!

there is plenty of time for you to get drunk and party all night, concentrate on your schooling and future.

I don't think you are a dissapointment. It is YOUR choice when you want to do these ADULT things anyway.

he would probably be MORE dissapointed if you were a DRUNK!!

Answer 5

no no no, dont even think about suicide

your not a dissapointment

don' u relize you are what you think u are?

ur just thinking really negative about urself

think about what your good at, the positiveness

did ur dad ever like a certain talent u had b4?

if ur relatives r dissapointed just because ur not popular, i feel really sorry for them, and u should be disspaointed at them

popularity is not everything in life ok?

we all have our moments

find somehting your good at, just think positive not negative

you need to have a more postive outlook on this situation

dont give up

Answer 6

DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE KILL YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There is no reason for your family to be doing that.  you need to tell them to cool it because it's rude and disrespectful!

You are not a disappointment, to me it seems like it's your relatives!  I"m very proud of you that you're not "going out and getting drunk like other teenagers."  Getting drunk will not change any situation for the better and i bet your dad will be even worse if you go out and get drunk

if you do feel suicidal call this number 211.  it doesn't cost anything and they really help.  It's called the Gryphon's Home and they help people who feel suicidal!  Please don't try to kill yourself, that won't solve any problems!

Answer 7

Wow -- that's total opposite of most parents.  How old are you?  I would just ignore his comments and be yourself.  You aren't a disappointment at all... you are a good kid, not out doing all the stupid things most of them do.  Just suck it up until you can get out -- or go somewhere and just pretend you are out drinking with your friends.. go to a friends and play video games or go to the library and leave.. come home stumble around and go to bed haha... ignore it, you'll turn out good! :)

Answer 8

your not really a disappointment its the same way with me just becouse i dont do bad things like older brother my mom just looks over me like im nothing and my dad says im worthless well i kind of am...at least i feel like that i think thats its great that you dont do anything bad your responsable and thats what really matters....