Why am I such a feminine heterosexual person?

Question

One weird thing I also observed was how I looked up to female bodies as my body's rolemodel. Most males would look up to muscular and big men.

Answer 1

Does it really matter in the long run when you accept this as you being you.  Enjoy yourself being you.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with having feminine traits. Just don't do it at the expense of your male ones.  

Answer 3

It just means that you're in touch with you're feminine side. Nothing wrong with that. Be yourself, and enjoy. Cheers.

Answer 4

Your a metro sexual.

You enjoy taking care of your self, body and mind.

Cutting your nails, Grooming and ETC.

Metro sexual males are cute:)

Answer 5

I don't know if there's a why, any more than I could tell you why I like pistachio icecream.  We like what we like.  Don't sweat it.

Answer 6

It's probably a combination of your physical characteristics and the way you were raised.  It's good for everybody to be different.  If we were all cookie cutter people, that would be boring.

I think you are probably quite far from having a gender identity crisis.  It sounds like you know what and who you like.

Answer 7

Because it is just the way you are. Could be nature or it could be nurture, but scientist's haven't figured that out yet.

      You sound like a metro-sexual, nothing wrong with it. Just be yourself and try and live a good life.

Answer 8

Not every guy wants to be part of that alpha male stereotype. There are many ways of being masculine. Weirdly enough, my sister's boyfriend is girlier than our g*y friend. Even g*y guys can be masculine. They are men, after all. I studied alongside plenty of men when I was doing humanities at uni, and some of the top designers are men. You are the way you are because you are that way. The reasons aren't particularly important.

Answer 9

Maybe you could ask for a blood test to check your hormone levels. Not that there's anything wrong with you, though if you're concerned, it might have something to do with lower levels of circulating androgens. Lower testosterone levels correlate with a less masculine facial structure along with a more feminine personality profile, like the one you claimed you had.

Answer 10

Um, for me it's kind of the same thing only vice versa. I can be insecure about it, too. Been like that since elementary school and still is in high school. Nothing wrong with it. Just be you.

Answer 11

Gender identity and sexual orientation are two COMPLETELY different things, and most of the time they do not go had in hand, either. Gender identity is the set of characteristics or physical attributes of a specific gender that you identify more strongly with, which, in your case, is female. Sexual orientation is, of course, the gender to which you are attracted. It is perfectly normal for you to have a different orientation and identity. Sometimes identifying with females comes as a result of being raised in a home with many of them, or it may come from excess estrogen/progesterone in the body. Science can't really say for sure. However, do your thing; since you are attracted to women, you may find that your similar interests allow you to find common ground more easily, and that can definitely be a bonus :]

Answer 12

Maybe you really are g*y. Maybe not.

Maybe you're one of those metrosexuals. Maybe not.

Maybe you desire to be transgendered. Maybe not.

But who really cares...

Be yourself. After all, that's all you can ever really be.

Answer 13

Don't listen to others ..

Don't think of problems too much....

Do what you like to do.........

There are lots of people which suit this description who has become successful fashion designers, sportsmen and etc.

Answer 14

Maybe thats just you and there is nothing wrong with being true to yourself.  

Answer 15

Nothing wrong with it. I have a friend like you. He says that he's a L*****n trapped in a male body, lol!