Why am I such a pig?

Question

I recently met a girl that I absolutely adore: she's funny, smart, and we are very compatible. We get along great. She is (almost) everything I want in a wife.

The problem is, I can't get past the fact that she is very obese and I feel terrible about it. I want to be with her, but it's very hard to get intimate with her. Plus, I am almost embarrassed to introduce her to family and friends, and I shouldn't feel this way.

I know I'm a pig, but I'm wondering if anyone can give me some advice. I want to be with her but how do I get past the obesity?

Thanks.

Answer 1

Seriously, if you love her like you say you do and she's everything you want...you would already be past the issue.  In fact, it shouldn't even be an issue.  Unfortunately you are in fact shallow.  She probably deserves better.  If you cared and wanted her as your wife you would help her with her weight and ENCOURAGE her to be healthier.

Answer 2

Admit to yourself your a fatty chaser and enjoy her, fat women need loving also.

Answer 3

You either love HER or you don't.

I always say...

"I love you ever knowing you faults"

If you think about that it's a powerful statement. :)

Answer 4

If you really really love her whats the prob,your stupid sense of beauty?

Your really shallow.

Answer 5

just turn-off the lights,

throw a climbing rope over her to help you get on up there,

once you have reached the summit, bust a big of a baking powder over her, so you can find the damp patch easier,

then all you gotta do is plant your flag!!

then voila, your fattyphobia will be gone!

ps. leave the helmet on in case she has a pigface phobia!

Answer 6

walk or excercise with her fat azz

SteveC