Why am I thinking like this about him??

Question

Ok I am an attractive young (20) year old woman.. but there is this 34 year old chubby married balding guy.. and I constantly am fantasizing about having s*x with him..

I have never dated anyone that wasn't tall dark and built.. why am I attracted to him like this?

Answer 1

I don't know is he nice to you. Do you want to be his friend? There are many things that can trigger these types of feelings.

Answer 2

First of all you are not the first female to have these feelings.

Secondly, it may not be so much him personally that you are attracted to but what he represents in your vision of a perfect life within a relationship.  Does he have it together?  Is he in your opinion a good husband/father?  If so, then this is what you want in a life partner so you are attracted to "part of the package."

Answer 3

He represents stability, security and commitment.  Probably haven't seen much of that in your tall dark built dates especailly if they are the same age as you.  You'll get over him

Answer 4

Maybe your subconcious is telling you something, haha.

Answer 5

This is seriously like a man asking why he likes a hatch-back over a Ferrari.

He will just stare at you incomprehensibly and say, "Huh?"

Answer 6

Hes married, don't get involved if you HONESTLY want something MORE then friendship with him....just think about his wife.

Anyways, find somebody that is not married :) maybe your heart is telling you he is a really good guy, and is great for friendship...

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