Why am i always the "friend"?

Question

I hang out with guys...alot. I have two older brothers and a majority of my family is male so it just comes natural. Im not a girly-girl, i like to talk about sports and video games and c**p like that. Anyways, i always end up being a "friend" and im okay with that but whats wrong with me? But one time, this guy i really liked for a long time started goin out with my friend (typical for me) and while they were going out he told me that a long time before he started goin out with her he liked me but never told me...why? I guess maybe im not enough of a bi*!% to be liked. Idk..its just aggravating.

Answer 1

Maybe you come off to strong, like guys like you and go WHOA she is so cool, I wanna ask her out! But as they get to know you better, they get the bive that you are not in to the dating and relationship s**z. You like to keep things as freinds and all that. Try to be more clear bout your feelings when you hang out with a guy, try giving himsignals that you like him and wan`t to be that girl not her freind.

    

Answer 2

if u want to be more than friends than sometime u have to be girly girl

Answer 3

yea that happens to me all the time.

i'm pretty aggravated too.

my friend is always the w***e and all of her 'friends' are whores

i'm just the one who the guys talk to when they get bored of

air-headedness.

haha it really sucks

Answer 4

maybe its because you may seem like ¨one of the guys¨