Why am i crying over him?

Question

I was friends with a married man. He was like a father figure to me since my own father doesn't want anything to do with me. He gave me intention that I was lacking in my life.

In addition, I felt comfortable talking to him about anything. He is 44 and I am 23.When I met him, I didn't know that he was married and he told me after a while.

I didn't stop seeing him because we were just friends and he was like a father to me. I had no intentions of hooking up with him.

After spending more time together we became close and we got intimate. We didn't have s*x but we kissed and I went down on him.

He hasn't called me since that day and I don't know why. I just want to stay friends with him because he meant a lot to me. I miss him allot and I have been crying over him.

I feel like he took part of me with him since him as been there for me

Answer 1

Why in the world are you going after a married man? hmm, HOME WRECKER? He obviously backed off and is trying to fix his prior relationship, by cutting yours. Your 23 still young, stop crying, and GO OUT!

Answer 2

The answer is simple.  Don't give married men blow jobs, or anything else for that matter.  

Answer 3

He wanted to hook up with you from the start. No married man who is twice your age is looking for a "friend" in a young woman like you.....he took advantage of you. Secondly, you viewed him as a father figure but you still gave him a BJ???