Why am i feeling like this for?

Question

I've known my boyfriend since i was about 8 ( im now 15 and his 14), and we've been together about 2 weeks now everything is going really well but i'm really scared that somethings going to happen.

my mate was really happy with her boyfriend they were so in love, and he died in a accident

I'm so scared something like thats going to happen, its actually starting to depress me alot, why am i feeling like this for..? :(

Answer 1

It's okay ! You just have some mental anxiety going on. You see something happen to someone else and think it will happen to you. It's normal. I had a bad relationship with a guy and now i'm afraid to be with another guy. But I'm getting over it . Just remember, the same thing doesn't happen to everyone.

Answer 2

I cannot answer your question, but I would like to say, STOP  thinking like this.

In the theory of "like attracts like" just THINKING  something can make it come true.  Yeah, I used to think "What rubbish" but looking back at my life, i think that it may well be right.  Well for bad things, anyway.

When you start thinking like this, immediately change your train of thought...to something that does not involve your boyfriend, health or anything remotely similar...like what dress you are going to wear when you go out on the weekend, or where you want to go on a holiday, anything that distracts you.  I have had to do this, myself, since i have had the same thoughts about my partner, and I certainly do not want such a thing to happen.