Why am i having bad dreams as my wedding gets closer??

Question

i love my fiance and know he is the right one for me. i am very excited to marry him. but the past couple nights i have been having these dreams that make me wake up in a panic. they mostly are about somehow we are right there about to get married and i realize my makeup isnt on, my hair isnt done, i cant find any of my accessories etc like everything goes wrong right before hand. why am i having these dreams?

Answer 1

You don't have to be perfect for your wedding.  I think you are just stressing out.  You may feel unprepared at your wedding or for your wedding.  I am not sure if this is psychological or a sign that something might not go on as planned that day.  If you are ready to marry, it doesn't matter if the music comes on at the wrong time or the flowers don't look right.  Congratulations!

Answer 2

ur just nervous....everything will be fine....its normal for those thoughts to go through ur mind...

Answer 3

This is the playing out of the actual anxieties that have fleetingly occurred to you but which you've never really voiced to others or dwelled upon greatly.  It's a phase you need to go through though nothing like that will happen.

Regards

Answer 4

This has nothing to do with your relationship, but more about making that special day 100% perfect, and not wanting to be the reason it isn't. You may feel that it is your job to ensure happiness happens all around.

Answer 5

you're just nervous. nothing is wrong with you or anything.

Answer 6

Everyone has dreams like these when some big important even is coming up. You want everything to be perfect and you don't want one single thing to go wrong. Everything will be fine. Don't worry.

Answer 7

your just worried that the wedding won't go as you plan, it has nothing to do with your relationship.

Answer 8

You're nervous. This is a big change in your life, and your mind uses dreams to work out your thoughts. Hey, at least the things that go wrong are the insignificant ones. I'd take this to mean that you are completely sure about your fiance, and just have the jitters about the event itself. After all, little things do happen. Just focus on the good, and how beautiful your life will be after!

Answer 9

you will go unprepared an incedently say no when they ask"do you take... to be you ..."