Why am i hot for one and not another ?

Question

my current man, well, i just can't get turned on with him, i hate it when he touches me or kisses me. But we end up doing it anyway, whether i like to or not and i hurts! i never can get hot enough! but with my ex, whenever we hook up which is maybe once a month he makes me hot just with one touch or kiss! and in a way i hate that! i want to not be so ya know hot already down there... why is that is it normal? or do i have to do something? its kinda gross!

Answer 1

Go put this question in the right section.

Srsly sometimes i think the people on YA are in some way impaired.

You are probably attracted to the risk factor associated with your ex, youre doing something that is naughty which excites you a bit more than usual. It is normal to get hot down there when you are excited, as for what to do with your current partner. STOP cheating on him OR leave him.

Buy some lube.