Why am i infatuated by girls?

Question

I sometimes get infuated by girls (like in a romantic sense) but i don't like them sexually or anything. i go to an all girls school and i think i am straight, even though i have never had a crush on a guy (but i think that's because i'm not really used to them). i honestly think i am straight but i just want to know why i still get infatuated by girls... is it a self esteem thing?

Answer 1

Most girls are "infatuated" by other girls to some extent, e.g. they look up to other girls, especially older ones who are attractive. It doesn't make you a L*****n or bisexual!

You said in a romantic sense though which makes me think you're probably a bit curious and probably going through a phase. You didn't say how old you are but if you're under 18 and especially under 16 then you're hormones will be all over the place and there is no point trying to work things out yet because time will sort out how you feel. You could be 100% straight even though you feel this right now. It's been proved that a massive percent of girls fancy other girls during their teenage years. So don't worry about it.

Have patience and time will tell what sexuality you are :)

Answer 2

I don't see anything wrong with that maybe your just interested and curous  

Answer 3

Because girls/women are beautiful!!!

Answer 4

You're probably just curious. Because you go to an all girls school, you do go around boys often (maybe). So you're used to being around girls. Meet some guys or tell a friend to hook you up with one. Then you'll see if you like girls, guys, or both. It may take you while like it did me. I'm bi.  

Answer 5

girls are beautiful, i think your just confused, give it time :) it'll work itsself out.. and going to an all girls school wont help if you wanna be straight.