Why am i like this ? help ? ?

Question

i dont know why but i just feel really depresed like im not good enough for anybody & im never going to be. like i've been trying my whole life & still I cant be what i want to be. i dont know who i am & i dont know who im going to be i have no clue what to do . . i felt as if i was ready for highschool but all of a sudden i realized im not im not good enough for the people i want to make friends with.. Theyre going to look perfect everyday , & i'll try.. but im probably not. & i feel like EVEN girls that dress in stitches & urban planet, look better then me i feel so like depressed . please help. ? I dont know what i want i dont know what i need . i just feel like c**p . .. :(

Answer 1

You shouldn't worry about what people think and wear . That is superficial. And you don't want to hang out with people that do care about it .. So i'll have to agree with answer #2 GET OVER IT  

Answer 2

awweee, are you going to be a high school freshman?

so am I! and I'm really worried too, just like you. the feeling of, why do i seem to be the only girl that makes mistakes? why am i the last one to know the trends and gossip? why do i always seem to be on the outside looking in, when all the other girls are on the inside looking down on me like i'm dog poo??

yeah, i feel like that too.

email me. we can talk.

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Answer 3

Holy, what happened to make you sooo depressed? Just chill out, try not to care so much about what other people think. If you wanna make friends then talk to people, if you wanna look pretty take the time to get ready in the morning before school. If you keep thinking about all this depressing nonsense then your like will just pass you by.

Answer 4

GET SOME CLOTHES!! I AM SURE YOU LOOK BEAUTIFUL!!!!!!! Listen, go to the people who you think look good, if it makes you feel better copy them. It doesn''t matter, clothes dont make a person beautiful so don;t worry. Even if you are still feeling depressed there is always makeup, jewelry shoes and hair that can make you beautiful. You have a unique style so be PROUD!

Answer 5

you feel like even girls who dress for cheaper look better than you and now you're all depressed because the rich caddy girls are too good to be your friends?

*slap*

feel better.

Answer 6

break up idk..

Answer 7

People who always look perfect and popular are meant to make

every other girl feel horrible.

I know this sounds SO stupid, but read the twilight series. Bella Swan

is a character that every girl can really relate to, and she made me

feel so much better about myself.

If you've watched all of the Harry Potter movies, you will realize

Hermione Granger isn't a girl who cares about how "beautiful"

she looks today, or how many friends she has.

Sometimes when you look in the mirror and think to yourself

you are so pretty, you could end up staring at yourself and constantly

thinking how pretty you are. I've seen that happen; from feeling

like c**p, to feeling like you are prettier than Jessica Alba in just

two days.

Guys don't go after the beautiful, over confident, too-out-going,

popular, airheaded beauty-queens of high school (the good

guys at least). Try being yourself and wearing the make-up

and clothes and hair that looks good on YOU, not some other

girl, or "the fashion".

As for friends, it doesn't matter what people think; that's

what everyone says, BUT IT'S TRUE! A year ago I felt EXACTLY

what you were feeling. EXACTLY. I learned what makes me

look good, feel good, and I stopped trying to get the stupid

popular girls to like me. I only made a fool of myself when

I tried to be friends with them. They're not really "popular",

they're just girls who think they look good, have confidence,

and don't care what the "nerdy" people think of them. That's

all they are. They think you're a loser if you don't have a party

or somewhere to go to on friday night, or if you have overprotective

parents, if you don't straighten your hair and wear make-up, or if you don't shop at Hollister. Am I right?

I learned to say, "I don't freaking CARE anymore!!!!!"

And I just started learning little things every day that

set me apart from other girls and make me feel and be

really pretty. When I felt ugly, I looked no different then when

I feel beautiful. It's not your eyes, it's your mind.

Don't feel like c**p. You might just be feeling

over whelmed with all of the things that are

suppose to happen in high school. Who

CARES if you don't get the guy the hottest

girl gets. You'll get someone that IS your type,

and thinks those "popular" people are mean too.

Doesn't mean he's a loser.

Try not to look at your downsides, and look at what

you have that others don't; not necessarily the cute hair,

but the cute personality, and shyness, or something.

Hold your head up high, and realize you are so beautiful

inside, and out. :)