Why am i not pregnant?

Question

My and my boyfriend fiance cant seem to concieve and i dont know why? Weve both been the doctors and they have said everything is fine. And we have intercorse regulary maybe even more than average and i always seem to come on my periods. I thought i was pregnant recently coz i was late and got signs that i was and so went and bought a test but it said negative and then i came on. And now my period has lasted for about 7-8 days really heavy and non stop with bad bad pains and i normally am only on for 4-5 days

is there something wrong with me?

will i ever be able to convieve?

Answer 1

Pregnancy is not that easy...  since nothing's wrong and you both checked out fine... the only thing left to do is, keep on trying....  

try not to be stressed before AND after your attempts, this might help the sperm

good luck

PS.  for the female, elevate your leg after the deed and let gravity give  a hand to the sperms  :D

Answer 2

the strange period is probably due to your stress level.  trying to get pregnant is not easy and is very emotional and that affects your body so your body is just reacting.  try to have intercourse every other night, because that way you don't have to track your ovulation days and you won't be depleting your fiance's sperm count.  it'll happen, don't be too disappointed yet.  good luck!

Answer 3

Before I got pregnant my doctor said to me to write down when my period started and ended for three months. In those three months you check  the day's you are firtle. They aslo have kit's that tell you when you are firlte.  

Answer 4

It's crazy...here you are, trying your hardest to get pregnant..and then on Yahoo answers, you see 13 year olds posting  questions about how they became pregnant, whether they should or should not have the baby, and how they're so scared because their parents are going to find out and the kicker is...they weren't even trying to get pregnant in the first place!

It's almost a joke, really. Just as a little story, My husband and I tried to conceive for a while year. Last year around Thanksgiving time, it finally happened. I think it wasn't happening for a whole year because I was stressing so much over it. I kept thinking about the baby. I kept counting days, researching my ovulation charts, reading about all kinds of crazy methods to conceive a child. I had baby on the brain. Finally in November last year, I gave up. I had a move to think about. I had to pack things, clothes, furniture...had to get an apartment, start paying new bills with my husband, make a road trip to our new state..things were hectic and I forgot about baby-making, and somewhere around that time, it happened. I think when you are anticipating a child, your body isn't going to respond only because of how the stress hormones are high even though you don't know it. And this can even put your cycle off. It sucks, really. I have some really helpful sites for you though..you should check them out:

Find out when you are ovulating:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Side effects of personal lubricants when TTC:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Tips for Conceiving:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Increasing chances of getting pregnant:

http://www.associatedcontent.com/article...

Good luck..I know it's so freakin frustrating...but it will happen. Like I said, we tried for a year..now I'm 37 weeks and almost ready to say Hello to my own little one. I do wish you the best.

Answer 5

Get married before trying to have a baby!  Nothing looks trashier than a knocked up girl in a wedding dress.  "Mommy, was I an accident cuz you and daddy weren't even married?"  THAT is what you're going to have to put up with.