Why am i so afraid of change and commitment?

Question

what can i do to stop?

im 16 yrs old, and i always LOVE crushing on a guy and having him like me back but when it gets to the relationship point..

im dating this guy now, and i like him, i really do, but i find myself always having these thoughts of everything being different in my life because of him, and it scares me, and stops me from liking him alot more than i could.

how do i stop this??

Answer 1

Cause you are female. Now go cook me some eggs.

Answer 2

you can't stop it

Answer 3

You sound like this girl who liked me and i like. She really liked me then all of sudden the night before i go to ask her out she got cold feet, and said she doesn't really like me anymore. i don't get why some people do that lol. she is younger then you, but it's hard to stop if u can't be committed.  

Answer 4

Stop dating

Answer 5

Change is comfort's Challenger. Everyone wants comfort. You need to find a guy who's changes will increase your comfort.