Why am i so jealous of her?

Question

There is a girl i know and we used to be good Friends, but i found out she had back stabbed me by making up some random c**p and telling people i said it. But because of the group of Friends i have i cant get rid of her, she has to stay because everyone loves her. But the the thing is she acts like she does not realise she does it. And i cant stand it, my boyfriend thinks she is cool too, she sleeps at his with another girl all the time, she even keeps her clothes at his. She deliberately leaves stuff at this and it drives me up the wall. No-one understands why i hate her so but i think i have every right to be angry. I wont say out to her because i know that puts me in it. But how can i act like i dint care she is there. How do i get rid of the jealousy

Answer 1

She sounds like a right manipulative b***h to me.  Number 1 in your game plan is to not react - she wants you to flare up in front of your friends or boyfriend and then she can look sweet and innocent while you look like a witch.

Good luck x

Answer 2

She needs to back off- but I agree with the others. She wants to see you get mad. Some people are just evil and get off on that kinda stuff. I hope you believe in karma- have your faith in that. What goes around comes around and eventually she will get a taste of her own medicine.

Answer 3

Just be more cofdinet with yourself thast really all and maybe stop thinking about her and everything and just have fun or make new friends if you really want to get rid of her and all.

I dont know everone gets jealous sometimes it is human natture you just havem to be happy with yourself and have fun.

Answer 4

ignore her maybe or make some new friends

tell one of your other friends in the group that you dont like her

Answer 5

Well this girl kinda does seem like a pain.

Tell her that you don't like the way she treats you and that it's not nice.

Honesty and communication is one way to getting things solved.

Answer 6

You need to love yourself more.