Why am i so sad, for no reason?

Question

yesterday evening i started feeling kind of sad, and today it persisted. i have been getting in many arguments with my boyfriend, we resolve then but a short time later. ill bring up something else and we'll start again. he keeps asking me whats wrong but all can say is that i dont know, becuase its true. i just lost my virginity three days ago, could my emotions have taken a curve because of that? nothing bad has happened in my family or anything. no one has died nobody has gotten sick in my life, do i need to see a doctor, whats wrong with me? Please Help.

Answer 1

your virginity is precious. its something that you keep to yourself until you find the person that you want to give it to. its a big decision to make, and can often make you question your final decision. its completely natural to feel upset and emotional. take a day off to pamper and appreciate yourself. go to a spa, or get your hair done. do something that makes you feel important and beautiful. you'll be yourself in no time :)

Answer 2

Losing your virginity was a mistake. Get rid of that boyfriend.

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Answer 3

well, losing your virginity is a big thing. it usually provokes lots of emotions. but its usually during the process of, you know. yours just seemed a little delayed. your not the same person anymore. and your body is subconciously reacting to that. you don't need to see a doctor unless it gets to place of suicide or persists for  a long period of time.

feel better!

Answer 4

Everybody can be sad for no reason at different times in their lives.  Especially teenagers because of the hormones.  Don't worry about it.  If it's not gone before the end of the month, talk to your parents or friends about it.  If you still depressed after that consult a doctor.  

Answer 5

Im The Same Dont Worry :)

Answer 6

I felt this way when I lost my virginity too. I would pick fights with my boyfriend (who is now my husband) constantly. I knew it was wrong but I couldn't figure out how to stop feeling this way. The problem is that you just crossed a major milestone in your life by giving up your virginity to him and now you want to make sure he's a good man by drilling him on everything. You want to somehow prove to yourself that you've made the right decision. In a way this is good because if he truly loves you, he'll stick around until this phase is over. Don't do it too often though and know when it's the right time because you don't want him to think you're absolutely insane. Talk to him and explain what's happening. Have him reassure you that his love for you and his intentions are real. Don't worry, this is normal. Hope this helps.  

Answer 7

Perhaps you are feeling a little insecure after taking such a big step to get intimate with your boyfriend.  Maybe deep down you are scared of him leaving you and you getting hurt, so you are behaving in ways you normally wouldn't because you feel so vulnerable.

I also felt quite sad when i first became intimate with my boyfriend.  However, i think its because i realised i couldn't really trust him and i knew i was going to get hurt - which i did.  I hope you are truly close to your boyfriend, committed and can talk about anything. If so, just share your feelings with him rather than picking arguments.  He will understand if you are straight with him rather than getting emotional and starting arguments.  He will probably want to help reassure you.

You will start to feel better, it's a big step to take so its normal to feel a little overwhelmed!