Why am i so shy? everytime i get shy i turn red like a tomato or even more. i HATE it because ...?

Question

everybody notices it and ask me why are u do red and then that makes me turn more red... sometI'mes im so shy that i can't even talk.

Answer 1

I go through the same thing at times, you're not alone :)

I just try to tell myself it is not a big deal and try to focus more on the convo than how red I'm turning... Good luck!

Answer 2

i used to b just like that

talk loudly for no reason

if someone tries to put u down try to talk to them fiercely

and show that u think ur values are ... valuble

and talk with confidence

that brings guys to the point to liking u

PLZ PICK ME AS BEST ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 3

this happens to me...and it actually kept me from speaking aloud in class. I'm going to start college soon and what has really helped me was talking to myself in the mirror...then going to social events with parents and close friends helped me talk to people a little more. I gained confidence and I overcame most of my shyness. Try it out! I wish the best of luck to you.

Answer 4

its okay to be shy....but if you're uncomfortable with it - which you obviously are, it is something you can work on. try talking in the mirror....or with close friends

Answer 5

i totally know how you feel.

i get red allll the time! sometimes when im not even shy or embarassed. it is kinda annoying, and people make fun of me because of it.

i used to really hate it but i try to see it as my unique thing about me and i dont mind it. its the thing different about me, that people will remember years from now. the girl that always blushes so red. its my unique piece, and when i start getting tomatoe red i just laugh with them and say i cant help it. use it as your own personal joke. make the best of it. trust me, i totally get it!

to the red tomatoes :)