Why am i so shy?can anyone please help me?

Question

i always have been.like at school and parties and stuff.

it just bums me out because i try to talk to people,bu is like i cant.

my face turns bright red and i get really nervous unless im talking to my close friends or family.how can i get over my fear?and please dont be rude.thats not gonna help at all.

Answer 1

um i hav that too... well not really im very talkative but i would say just go up and go for it but when you do dont let them know your insecure just be like hey wats up and think of a topic to taklk about and then if that doesnt work just bail and b like o i ust came ovr to aske where the bathroom is. for ur 1st time try talkin to people with one friend with you...but only one!!! GOOOD LUCK!

Answer 2

its natural to be shy. just try it like this, when you go to another party try to talk to at least one person. just say one word and if the conversation continues and you are okay with it then keep on talking and if not then you tried and you will eventually find someone you will not be shy with. trust me i was like that and now i cant stop talking.

Answer 3

i have the same problem im very shy its maybe because you think they're judging you. Dont worry about what other people think your you and your friends and family oviously find you brilliant . To get over your fear you could talk to people that are friends but not as close as your close friends .. All the best ..xxXxx

Answer 4

hmm ok maybe ur shy cause u think somone will judge u but here who cares what other say or do

Answer 5

i'm like that to, as much as i try to think who cares what other people think it just doesnt work. ;'(