Why am i so unlucky?

Question

i never got what i wanted, i have been unlucky since i can remember, as i kid people ignored me so much. i am not a smart person, education wise i found it so hard to concentrate, when i would open a book to read, i read but i dont remember what i read. i always tried to be good at what i do, but i always failed. even in ove i am very unlucky, me and my girl was going out for about 5 years, now she left me. i dont have a well paid job. over the years i have become a very quiet person. sometimes i wish whats the purpose of my life, and sometimes i wish i was dead. as years are going by my situation is getting worser. i dont know what to do as i have no hopes left.

Answer 1

It could be that the purpose of your life is only to serve as a warning to others.

Answer 2

My friend, you are not alone. Most of us feel the same way at some point, many of us most of the time. It always looks like other people get all the lucky breaks, but this is just an illusion. The guy making tons of cash usually has no family life and misses out big-time. Highly educated people can feel pretty bad about themselves, because they think they should be more happy just because they have a "brain". So-called good looking people can be uncaring and selfish, because they don't have to work so hard to attract a mate. Brash people - the opposite of shy - can get even more aggressive and horrible to know when they don't get what they assume they deserve. It goes on. I don't know what the answer is, but I have a suspicion that we are all here to learn how to be good people and stay that way DESPITE ALL THE c**p THROWN AT US!!

Please don't hurt yourself. There are plenty of people who are much worse off. Try to help them as a way of helping yourself. I am doing just that, every day. All the best to you.

Answer 3

I ask myself the ? everyday.

Answer 4

life deals us some pretty S****y breaks sometimes ... u ain't the only one ... u sound a bit of a pessimist ... life ain't all that bad .. stop looking at the negatives and focus on the positives :)

Answer 5

Everyone is unlucky! I think that you are lucky to have had girlfriend for five years - I bet your a really good looking nice guy.

I have never been in a relationship that long ever!

You need to think about the woman who thought she was unlucky and miserable until when walking along she bumped in to the guy who was very cheerful even though he had only one leg!

Your cup is either half empty or half full.

Count your blessings and thank the Lord honey! xx

Answer 6

heeeey....dont feel liek this. there is light at the end of the tunnel. you need to believe in yourself. you are teh only one who can do that. i feel quite s h i t e at the moment too. i feel unhappy, i feel unloved, i feel i am going to fail my degree, i feel useless, i feel cr a p. tahst life soemtimes but you can make it better. its coz your girlie left you that you feel even worse. some woman will come along and love you for who you are. be patient. your time will come.

Answer 7

go to the doctor and get CBT and tablets- we all have periods when it all goes wrong but your portrayal seems so negative that you are possibly clinically depressed.

Answer 8

ahh man, i feel for you, but listen to this, you asked the same question in 3 catagories, people didnt ignor you, they gave you their best advise to make you fell better, and they dont even know you. i know it might not make you feel any better, you didnt tell us all the things that made you feel the way you feel now, but like people said think about the positive things in your life, dont let other people control your feelings, bad things happens every day to people, also good things happen, but as a human we take the bad things in and think about it more than the good things. you are are good at education, may be dont have any qualification like me, but you can read and write! i uess you live in uk, its not the best place, but you could have been in a worser place. think about this! and about your girl, why she left we dont know, but she has her own life, may be she wasnt happy with you, or may be she is a rigth all cow. i dont know. but what ever it is make self feel better, call her up and swear at her, burn her photos and flush it down the toilet, only if your upset and angry and hurt by her, it may make you feel a bit better. or just look on bright side, if you love her and want her to be happy, then she is happy. so dude, dont depress yourself, contact me if you like, i live in london, i will be your mate, not because i feel sorry for you, i would like a friend like you in my life. you are not unlucky my friend, infact you are lucky. so cheer up. have a nice day yeah, and dont do anything i wouldnt do.