Why are In-laws soooooooooooooooo annoying?!?

Question

When you have kids, its even worse. My child will get in trouble with me...and go running to her grandma. GO HOME is right!:p

Answer 1

because it's fun....just cuz you think they are annoying doesn't mean they really are. it's just your opinion, may not be everyone's.

Answer 2

I feel you honey. I am like that with my boyfriends mother. I hate the woman. Can't stand the @#$ch for nothing. They love to act like they are the parents of your kids. She tries to give me advice and I always remind her that this is my child not yours, so keep your advice to yourself. You had your chance at being a parent and now its my turn. And the funny thing is, is that her son is 30 years old, and she wasn't in his life for 20 years and she comes back to the Big Island and act like she's the best mom in the world. She needs to get a grip on herself. So if you can, try not to let it bother you, which I know is very hard. Or make it a point that your child has his/her parents and you don't need someone trying to interfere on how you raise your child..

Answer 3

Ha. My mom will sometimes send my brother and I to my grandma's so because she needs "a break". I call bull. But whatever its all right. I think its because grandparents loooove to spoil their grandkids and they think we deserve everything. That's nice and all but we can be spoiled brats. I think as we get oldder it wears off. Don't worry it'll stop soon.

GoodLuck.

Answer 4

don't you know that the way grand parents get even with their kids is to spoil the grand kids and send them home

Answer 5

I had the same problem and I talked to my husband about making a joint effort to make them stop. Your husband needs to intercede on your behalf or allow you to stand up for yourself and then back you up.

Answer 6

This weekend I got the "I wish I lived closer, then I'd be here at least once a week."  Please let me and your son have our own life, thanks!

Answer 7

Because they have no purpose left in their lives and they feel the need to take control of yours.

Also, because they smell like dog sick.

Answer 8

I Know!!

Mine practically live at my house. Can you say,  GO HOME!!

Answer 9

It's not the grandparents responsibility to raise your children.  You say but if she raise her kids like she is trying to do mine, lord..no wonder..."   No wonder what?

She obviously did all right at some point, you married her son.  Grandparents love, love, love to spoil their grandchildren.  So what if your child goes to grandma when she gets in trouble.  All kids look for someone else when they don't get what they want from one parent.  They are testing you so don't blame Grandma.

Just don't make your in-law issues into punishment between grandparents and grandchildren.  Not fair to anyone!  

Answer 10

tell  them

Answer 11

Oh I guess watching daughter in laws not watching their kids is soooooooo irating, maybe. Mine watched her son through mac-n-cheese in my swimming pool, did nothing. Ya gotta look at both veiws,