Why are adopted people not liked by other people?

Question

why are adopted people not liked by other people is it maybe because they try to please people to much i would like some answers on this

Answer 1

If people don't like someone  i doubt it has anything to do with someone being adopted.  Perhaps someone in this case is just too self confident you feel people are going to automatically not like them  for whatever reason and they  use adoption as a scapegoat.

Answer 2

I have never heard of adopted people not being liked by others.  In fact, why would anyone even know you were adopted, it is nobody's business.

Answer 3

thats c**p sorry, whoever told you that is having you on.

Answer 4

What an ignorant question!

Answer 5

There is still a massive stigma against adopted people.

Some will not allow adoptees to marry into their families; some think adoptees will come kill them whilst they're sleeping!; Heck many people think adoptees are stalkers who can't be trusted with their own birth certificates in case they go out to find their first family and 'ruin someone's life' and if they ask for any information about the truth of their origins from the authorities they are treated with disdain.

I don't know why.  I just know your are right - adoptees aren't liked very much by society who appear not to trust us with the truth of our own origins.

Answer 6

I was adopted and didn't have a problem with people not liking me. Are you saying that your adopted family doesn't like you, or people in general? Because people outside of my family didn't know I was adopted. If you feel like you are discriminated against because your adopted, don't tell anyone.

Answer 7

I think it has to do with the fact that at night we turn green, grow horns, drool, and generally misbehave.  That is very off-putting to others who remain human after dark.

Answer 8

Whoever told you that was clearly insane.  Some of my favorite people in the whole world are adopted!  The adopted people i know don't go out of their way to please people.  They are down to earth, real, happy, loving and actually pretty darn cool.  I resent this rude question.

Answer 9

im adopted and I have tons of people that like me and not caring whether i was adopted or not....so whoever told you this is IGNORANT!

Answer 10

why don't refer to the answers you got last time you asked the same question?

Answer 11

Interesting. I will have to ask all the friends I shouldn't have why they actually like me... very odd indeed.

Answer 12

My son has a huge posse and he's only 2.

Answer 13

that is so not true. why wld anybody not like adopted ppl without any reason?

Answer 14

I'm sorry. I wasn't aware of that.

Answer 15

im adopted and people like me!

Answer 16

You already asked this... same answers apply.

Answer 17

Current research suggests that adopted children, since inherently not raised by their parents and subsequently against the natural way, are disliked because they are labeled as heretics. Further research, is beginning to suggest that adopted children tend to be only 3/5 human beings.

Answer 18

adoptees are known to be possessed by satan, and are 100 time more likely to kill you in your sleep.  They ,may appear to be normal on the outside. nut inside their organs are made of swiss cheese and their blood in pink..........................oh come on what a stupid question!! What are you a freakin troll??????

Answer 19

Because people are ingornat. They feel like since you weren't wanted, they don't want you either......It happened to me my whole life

Answer 20

I am sure some adopted people are nto liked by others.  I am sure some non-adopted people are not liked by others.  

Whether people like you or not has nothing to do with adoption and everything to do with your personality.

What a rude question, and I am sorry for your ignorance.

Answer 21

Hmmmm..... maybe because that is not a real statistic.  We are just like anyone else.  What's not to like?  If someone is doesn't like one for adopted, it is usually a case of extreme ignorance.  Much like whoever told you that mess!  So what, we are supposed to be a bunch of people pleasers?!  Are you kidding me?  No disrespect.  That's just a bunch of c**p.

Answer 22

Ive never once heard that.... MY best friend of 8 years is adopted and i love her!

Answer 23

Where did you get your source-  I am adopted , and I am pretty sure I am not hated because of it- and have 2 precious adopted children as well- and they are liked by their peers- my daughter as a matter of fact extremely popular.  Why would you even ask this type of question, you must have something against adopted children, or adoption in general.