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I keep reading comments where people are disgusted at the desire to adopt an infant because there are so many children in fostercare to be adopted. I get the feeling that these posters here think that those of us who want to adopt an infant are selfish.But you know what - people don't say to pregnant women "you should be adopting instead of having a baby - how selfish" So why is that a woman who can get pregnant naturally has the right to want an infant, but I don't? I agree that it is awful that there are so many children in foster care without parents. My husband and I have discussed adopting an older child. It is not right for us at the moment. I have an incredibly strong desire to be a Mother. Just like all the other Mothers out there. And I don't think I should be made to feel guilty because I want to have a baby of my own to raise. Tell me I am selfish for having a baby, and you are hypocrite to not say the same to any other Mother.
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