Why are boys so complicated??

Question

i have a best friend .. and i have the hugest crush on him. he knows it. we've known eachother for 7 years now and when we first met he was attracted to me... and we just always kept in touch and its gone back and forth between us over the years.. hes finally going to be back home soon (hes in iraq) and i unsure if were gonna try the whole dating eachother thing.. i feel like at times he wants to but sometimes i dont know.. i feel like he leads me on at times.. but hes my friend.. Question is.. Should i just quit trying to be more than friends with him and be happy with how things are or should i keep trying to take things further..? any suggestions. im absolutely torn on what i should do.

Answer 1

if you really have that feeling for him, and he knows it, and he's had that feeling more then once, I'd say you're a shoe in. He's probably still thinking about it, just is starting to lay off because it didn't work.

Answer 2

okay well it seems from reading this you're older than me but ill try helping :)

i think if you guys have liked each other throughout the years and are best friends, then i think you guys should date. he probably is hesitant about asking you out because he might think it will ruin your friendship.

i think you should make the move, and if nothing happens, dont feel bad because he probably felt the same way when he lead you on.

i hope i helped :)

Answer 3

i say you just stay friends with him.. you dont want to ruin your friendship.. if it goes any further. let it happen naturally.. if you are meant to be you will be.. just be patient and enjoy your friendship. not everyone is lucky enough to have a best friend.

Answer 4

lol this is almost exactly like the situation im in only in reverse to be honest with you   i cant answer why guys are so difficult like that but me being a guy i can say he probably loves you to no end  iv known a girl for 9 years and i just got back from iraq and i really want to marry this girl but we arnt even dateing and im to much of a coward to explain how i feel to her  but anyway i think you should wait b4 you give up cause guys are somtimes very brave as im sure he had to be when he was in that damned country but somtimes we can be like little kids wanting to pass notes instead of actually talking to you   but i would sugest you make ur feelings toward him more pronounced cause belive me he needs to really know how you feel before he would make a move  (this is assuming he is the shy type or w-e)  well i hope this answer helped  have a nice day bye

Answer 5

why do boys have to go and make things so complicated?

I see the way you're acting like you're somebody else gets me frustrated

Answer 6

Because when they walk around, their wangs keep flopping around and it makes it hard for them to concentrate, so they do stupid things

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Answer 7

lmao, boys complicated, from our point of view its the girls XD

Answer 8

We are easy to figure out...if you can see past our sense of humor.

Answer 9

ha! girls are complicated!

talk talk talk talk talk talk!

'hey sally i like your purse!'

ya you too!'

'oh my god!!!! omg!!!!'

'wat'

'matt said hi to me yesterday!!!'

(both squeal and go crazy)

lol

Answer 10

the same goes for girls ... let`s face it we are different from every point of view , I guess that makes it interesting :D Just do as you think it would be best , I mean you should figure out things by yourself :)

Answer 11

JUST GO AHEAD AND DO IT! =D

When he comes back, ask him out. You don't want to have any regrets in the future. If you have been holding back for that long, it means you really like him. If he likes you back he will love to go out with his best friend. That's the best jackpot there is = dating your bestfriend. But if he doesn't like you back like you thought so, if he is really a good friend, he would stay and be your friend.

Just go ahead and tell him what you really feel and hope for the best! Live today as if its your last!

Answer 12

Look.. men are not complicated. We want food, rest, entertainment and s*x. Period. Everything else is just us passing time. You guys make us complicated because you think there's more to figure out. There isn't.