Why are girls so stupid when it comes to guys??

Question

My friend's boyfriend is jerk. He wants to see her when he wants, but when she asks him to hang out he's always busy. They make plans and last minute he always cancels because he has to hang out with his friends or go clubbing or to the casinos.

And yet she keeps calling him, and keeps texting him. I told her to give him space and let him come to her, but she won't listen to me. I understand that she loves him, but she's being stupid in my opinion. His friends came into town last weekend and we all hung out together, but he completely ignored. He barely introduced her as his girlfriend. She text him the next day at around eight, and she was like "I know he knows I'm mad because I didn't text him for a whole day." But she still text him, so he probably thinks that she isn't mad anymore.

How do I get her to understand that he's rude, inconsiderate, and that she deserves to be treated better?

Answer 1

The fact of life is girls like jerks.. Lots of girls. One reason is because they get to complain about him to fulfill her need to gossip.

Answer 2

Have you ever heard the saying you can lead a horse to water but you cant make them drink. Well that seem like to me whats going on here you can tell your friend whatever you want but thats may or may not help. Sometimes you have to let people figure out things on there own and oneday she will see that he is not right for her but only she can make that decison for herself. The most you can is be there for her like a real friend should and not keep telling her what she should and shouldnt do cause in the end that just might mess up your relationship with her cause she going to feel like you just dont want her to be with him so just back off a little she old enough to take actions in her own hands and when the time is right she will. Remember theres so much a person can take from another person.

Answer 3

explain to her how good a boyfriend can be, and show her how bad her boyfriend is

usually hate when people do this, but can anyone answer my question?

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Answer 4

You could talk to her boyfriend and bring it to his attention. Or maybe you could show her how a man really should treat his girl. You could show her in a movie, or an actual guy whose a gentleman. I think she can't just be told that it could be better. I think she's the type of person that needs proof. So please show her that a relationship is supposed to be better, because she sounds like a nice girl, and I believe no one deserves to be treated like that.. not even people like her boyfriend.

Hope this helped. Good Luck getting through to her.

Answer 5

marley is rite.

it don matter wht u say to her she isnt gona see it. she has to figure it out for herself.  

Answer 6

i had a friend like this once and you cant make her see

she has to see it for herself and one day she will realize it

i know its annoying to you cuz she complains probably right?

but then she doesnt do anything about it...

just give it time and she will come to realize that she deserves better.

Answer 7

because you girls always pick jerks, i have no clue why you do.

Answer 8

dont even waste your breathe. just let her make her own mistake. shes gonna get hurt either way so just let her be because you arent gonna convince her about going out with the jerk. girls are really really stupid when it comes to guys. even i make mistakes with them and you probably will too.