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Why are guys like this?

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Ok, well, for some reason, I have noticed this, at least in high school.

If an overweight guy dates a skinny/athletic girl, it's socially acceptable. It's fine.

But if an overweight girl, dates a muscular, or skinny guy, it's completely wrong.

I ask this because I know a guy who is dating a girl who is overweight. She's not that big, she's barely fat Sure enough, guys are like "You're dating a fat b**ch.."

Why is it like this?

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  1. Because the perverts who only think about s*x and there egos.

    (well most are anyway)


  2. face it, its gross when a girl is fat... on the other hand, a guy can be fat as **** and he wont really look gross, i guess it has something to do with being a guy.  

  3. It's High School dude. A social zoo where looks mean way more than they should. If he's in the top percentage of the social populous then he's expected to be with the same type female. To go outside of that would be to going against the grain...oh no..don't be ur own individual. Don't say..fck what your friends say because I'm sure their opinions about who you date means more than actually feelings. Huh. Guys will be guys because they're scared to show that they actually do have feelings...soft, man, soft.

  4. because men place an abnormal amount of importance on physical  appearance, thanks to our good old friend, the media. this definitely is an unfortunate truth...  

  5. good point... but it also has to do with guys thinking that the only reason that he's going with her is because he wants to "nail a fat chick"

  6. Blake  your great


  7. It's because women are judged so much on how they look.  Guys are judged like that too but not to the same extreme. If a girl is overweight that automatically makes her unpopular.  With guys not so much.But it's not that socially acceptable for a skinny girl to date a fat guy.  I did once and do you know how I got teased by all of my friends.  People would meet me and say "that's your boyfriend?"  It always seems like it's harder for our s*x then the other but that's not always true.  Oh yeah and it's also becuase men are pigs. :)

  8. i think guys are like this due to lack of maturity.

  9. Basically because most men are meat heads and they believe you need to get the hottest girl in school for s*x. When in reality looks are important of course but it is just as important to look at personality aswell.  

  10. because guys can eb evil!!!!!!!!!!!! i am evil!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! people used to call me a fat ***** it was my best friend too, it was my favourite pikachu action figure started saying *** of stupid moth *** i ***** hate u ***** b*****d i was like wat the ***??????? it hates me !!1 but i had been having s*x wif it for over 6 years like OMFG !!!!

    and is this question aimed at me ? like wtf why in h**l do u always do this just cos im g*y dobnt mean im like some different species ! MOTHA FUKA STRAIGHT PPL !!!!!!!

  11. Well, I think that people saying that are thinking that he is suffering from a low self esteem therefore dating below his ability. I think he should date who he wants and leave it at that

  12. who knows!!

    the media sucks..

    but one thing is for sure, i looove the big boys!!

    hehe

  13. All guys want skinny girls.  Its like thats the thing.  I think its crappy.  All women need love.

  14. because high school is full of immature people who don't know how to act or keep their d*mn mouth shut.

  15. how hard is it to comprehend the phrase 'all guys want hot chicks'

  16. mainly because they are jelous, its just a guy thing, when more than one guy are together, generally we like to show off, but its prolly not what we really think

  17. casue they hate that guy or they are jelous of the girl

  18. that's the way the world is, cruel

  19. Its how the world spins, sadly enough.

  20. bcas WTFWTFW WTFWTFWTWTW

  21. because honestely girls do not care THAT much about looks. we look at more personatlities and how they make us feel rather than just looks.

    guys well that's mostly the main focus. even among his friends they will tell him whether their girl is hot or whatever. its just the way it is.

  22. because theyre ***holes

  23. A lot of it has to do with the influence Hollywood has on our society. :)

    It sucks.

    s***w what other people think.

    date who you want to date dang it. :)

    lol

  24. i no exactly what you are saying! you are completely right! i no this girl and no its not me its my best friend! i wish i new its soo stupid that guys judge girls but the way they look! and not personality! i would want a guy who i could have good conversation with any day! i would not really care how he looks!

  25. Because they need to grow up.

  26. kids are cruel

  27. Because Society has very crued ideals. Fat men are OK and Fat women ARE NOT. that's what they say. Don't worry about them. All that counts is how you feel about it. Believe in your ideas towards it. If she looks good to you, Then good for you. You have a much higher chance of finding the right person for you if you look with your heart, and not your eyes. <3 thank you for being an amazing guy :)

  28. No thats not true girls saw that about the guys too but not in front of other guys... at least at my school they do.

  29. Because people are stupid..ignorant..closed minded..shallow...selfish..and probably just jealous because they are too stupid to never consider going out with an overweight person.

  30. because modern society is screwed.

  31. Most guys are obsessed with appearance and most girls can look past it.  It's the nature of the beast.
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