Why are hot girls attracted to jerks and mysogynists?

Question

and dont tell me they arent, while I like to keep in shape and am reasonable good looking it aint like seriously hot girls would have had troubles to land a gymboy that is less vocal than me.

So why is it that while feminists who DO LOOK LIKE feminists get all riled up when it comes to machos and mysos girls who are like a 9 10 cant help to be attracted to them ?

Answer 1

It all depends what you mean by 'hot girls'. Probably dumb bimbos.

Post a photo of an example of your hot girl.

EDIT: Ah so the 'hot girl' is the self obsessed swimwear model, obviously with fake b***s, lip implants and too skinny so probabl starves herself. Very superficial and just wants some arm candy?

Answer 2

Not everything is so one-sided.  It really depends on the person and what they want out of a man, not their physical appearance.  

Why is that so hard for you to understand?

Answer 3

Wait so you are a guy????

Answer 4

I think a lot of it is that these girls love a challenge, they equate "bad boy" with "Hot s*x", "adventure", "risk", etc. there's also that fairy-tale idea of "beauty taming the beast" (this mindset is also common in battered women). Quite frankly, I think chicks like that are dorks. Ladies....HE WON'T CHANGE....unless he wants to. You can't tame him! Nice, civilized gentlemen are the true "Real Men".....not the "Gangsta Thug", "Bad Boy", "Pro-Wrestler/Cage-Fighter-Type" or any other hyper-masculine blob of excess testosterone. I don't mind masculinity....but only if it's civilized, mature, full of nobility & self-control with no chest-beating or over-agression.

Answer 5

I don't know how old are you, but it's family environment that usually shapes what women want later on in life.  They're attracted to jerks, because that's how the men in their family acted or they grew up with that.

The definition of a jerk is subjective too. People say my ex is a jerk (which he can be), but he has good qualities as well that I haven't found in others. What may be a jerk to you may be the greatest guy to someone else.

If you want me to generalize, a lot of abused children have grown up to be beautiful women.  Just look at some of the gorgeous p**n stars who have been sexually abused.

YES, hot girls can have low self-esteem.  It looks like you don't know too much about hot girls. Men that have dated multitudes of hot  women are aware of what insecurities lurk beneath the exterior.  There are also hot girls that feel ugly, no matter how many people tell them that they're beautiful. Not everyone knows they're a 9 or a 10.

Answer 6

SOME females are so used to being gawked at and drooled over, they are intrigued by a guy who appears immune to her feminine wiles. That's one theory...

Another is that women who grew up in abusive households still look for a guy like "dear old Dad," continuing the cycle of abuse.

Yet another theory is, if a woman is looking for some casual s*x, and not a relationship, she may pick a guy she KNOWS she'll never fall in love with. (Until she gets to know him, she sees the "rare side," and she falls for the jerk anyway...)

Answer 7

Sometimes, people make mistakes...

Answer 8

Many men have a fixation with "hot " girls / females.  I for one do not, so I could not care less if they prefer one type of man to another.  This is not to say I do not like good looking or good women, but many men's definition of a good or hot woman centers solely around how she looks. True, many women like this tend to prefer men with money, power, position, and good looks, and that is their choice.  But we men allow them to exert such power over us, and we do not have to.

Now if you choose to worry about landing this type of woman, go for it.  But there are more important things in life than coupling with some woman SIMPLY because she is rated a 9 or 10.  I suggest that you sample some of the other  "types" of women, because you will find some of them charming, good looking, intelligent, and fun to be with as well.  But if you center your existence exclusively around "hot" women, be they a 9 or 10, then shame on you.  Waste your time.

Answer 9

Perhaps you are full of yourself and perhaps, you happen to meet the type that don't know what the h**l they want. Buyt I have seen many more hot girls that are with guys like myself or having the right blend or what I call "nice guy with an edge". Nice, but don't put up with BS, kind, but also a wiseass many times also, not doing stupid **** that will land myself in jail, but likes some adventure and very playful and likes having fun, can be laid back, but not too laid back, assertive, but not too assertive. Confident, but not cocky. A hint of arrogance and swagger, but not conceited. Respectful to women, but not a pushover either and will be ready to stand up for oneself or not going to bend over backwords just to be with her, but showing dignity in yourself.

Then on top of that charm, intelligence, charisma and good looks with a fairly, naturally toned physique and from what I have seen and experienced. This type of man beats out the a******s anyday, as it attracts a much broader base of women from hot to cute, to quiet girls, to party girls, to everything in between. So this bad boy, a*****e thing is overblown and I guarentee women prefer the "complete package" over a******s.

Answer 10

LOW Self-Esteem