Why are men so disrespectful?

Question

My ex and I broke up just over 5 months ago. He cheated. I chose the no contact route and haven't spoke to him since. We've maybe texted twice at the most. It's been really painful for me, and I do still love him so much. We were together for 3 years. Now today, out of NOWHERE he texts me asking about s*x? WTF???

Answer 1

Guys are stupid!  When you break up with someone after 3 years and he calls you or txs you for s*x then that's all he wants! Just ignore him if that's what you want to do, but if you still love him allot then don't do it because it's just gonna hurt you more.  If you want no contact with him at all the best thing to do would be to change your phone number and forget about him. You don't need a person like that! If you broke up with him for cheating on you I think you should stay away from him, ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER!!!  Don't worry about someone like that, he's a stupid F*** because he lives with his girl but he wants s*x with you!  NO!!! Don't even text him back all he wants is s*x and games and I'm sure you don't need that!  You will find a guy that loves you and respects you, and that treats you the way that you deserve to be treated!  I hope you can get over him soon... and if you need anyone to talk to just messege me....Wish you the best =)

Answer 2

.,mm..

.,sorry to tell you this but,

.,it's natural for those men to say those rude words..

.,and, i think,

.,he doesn't love you anymore, that's why,

.,he offered you a s*x even though

you and him has no relation at all..

.,he's just playing with your feelings,.

.,remember this saying-

"s*x WITHOUT LOVE, IS JUST AN EXERCISE"

Answer 3

Men are disrespectful because we allow them to be disrespectful.

If a man is disrespectful to me, he has 2 choices....shape up or ship out!

Every time you reply or text him....even if its something negative, you are proving to him that you are still emotionally connected to him and you are handing your power over to him.  When you stop doing that, he will eventually give up because he's no longer getting the response from you.  NOTHING you do is any of his business anymore and asking about s*x is waaay out of line.

Answer 4

I dont like some of these coments because they are sexiest but everyone is entittled to there own oppion.

No I do not think he love you, how ever why when us females ask for s*x its cuz we love the man, but when mean do it its cuz they dogs.

Just like womans gotta be hoes if they give it up, and mens are just ballers or players its all sexiest to me.

I feel this way cuz my man is so rude and ****, but thats my baby daddy I know no matter what we go through we aint gonna turn each other down. We was seperated for a while and was still given each other s*x, money, help with our kids what eva.

Diff situation for you, if you have no ties then he is just tryna use you. Dont wast your time on a guy you did not even carry his seed for nine months...thats what makes me and my man exspect each other back no matter what I do, or he do...its our bond, our babies.

Answer 5

he has what i call front . are you gonna tell him to stick it ' or are you gonna do the deed .

Answer 6

you sound like avery classy lady. he does not deserve ANYTHING from you except maybe a kick in the bal--.

Answer 7

This approach to a woman has probably worked for him before.  We're creatures of habit.  I did this, I got what I want, therefore: I'll do it again.

By no means am I talking about you, but.... you know how a few bad apples ruin the barrel?  Well, all it takes are a few girls to allow a guy to treat them like this, and still give them what they want and.. bam.  Our guy in question has learned something: this works.

So again I doubt it's anything that you personally did...  more than likely some other girl has briefed him on this aspect of 'the game.'   There technically aren't any rules, even if some of us do try to practice good sportsmanship.  So it sounds like he's learned that well.

Answer 8

I know you are mad and hurt, but not all men are disrespectful!! I am sorry, but the guy is a loser. time to have NO contact with him anymore. that means no texting.

Answer 9

Men are pigs. Not all of them, but most of them we all know all just want that ONE thing. Which was already mentioned in your question. Don't go back to him it's obvious he only wants s*x. You are so much better than that, I know it's hard and it will take time to get over but you will be able to get through it. I mean you've gone most of your whole life without him. Just have fun for now, hang out with friends and meet new, nice, RESPECTFUL men that will treat you right. Good luck!  

Answer 10

WTF??...simple...he wants to disrespect and degrade you. Why do you want to send messages to him anymore. Just stop all communications with him. Not even messages. Looks likes he enjoys degrading you. If you really wanna do something, meet his new girl friend and tell her to ask her boyfriend not to entertain himself with cruel jokes like these. That should get back at him good enough...lol.

Answer 11

I've done that before.  It's really not about you.  He has his own problems and isn't thinking about you.  So, when he asked you about s*x, it wasn't about you, it was his way of attempting to communicate with you, probably out of feeling inferior.  It's all good....just do your best to realize it's his problem.

Answer 12

He's a man s*x was all he can think of