Why are men such jerks to the woman they love?

Question

I been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We usually have no problems in our relationship. I am currently 7 1/2 mons pregnant for the second time with his child. I been really exhausted & in no mood for s*x. I try to please him in other ways. He asked to make love, so i agreed because I want to keep him happy. While doing so he became rough so it was very uncomfortable I told him to be more gentle. He proceeded being rough. So, I told him to stop. He got furious and snapped at me and called me a *****. I don't usually cry but maybe my hormones took over. I got upset and got myself out of bed and went on the couch. As I was laying there a few mins he came in and called me a Psycho. I was so furious I didn't even say a word to him.

Now Am I at fault I got upset and emotional? I'm a Psycho ?? I need some advice because honestly I feel very hurt by this situation.

Answer 1

I can't believe!!!! My dear I'm sure you're not a Psycho. You are just a woman who is in pregnant: please remember this to your bad man!!!!  5 years? what about before?

Answer 2

you are definately not a psycho and it was not your fault. If my husband pulled that on me i woul of smacked him across the face.

  he needs to understand how you feel and respect you and your wishes.

Answer 3

No you are not psycho just hormonal. Your boyfriend is a jerk for not being more understanding and sensitive. You have every reason to be hurt and the stress that he's causing you can affect your unborn baby.

Answer 4

You are absolutely not at fault here! He was being totally unreasonable, immature, and dangerous.  I don't know why men can't understand pregnancy. They seem so confounded about tiredness, nausea, emotional roller coasters, etc. Like they have to actually experience pregnancy before understanding it. I wouldn't talk to your boyfriend until he decides to apologize, you didn't do anything wrong and it is not your obligation to sooth his incorrect feelings.  

Answer 5

maybe the hormones made you psycho and he's not man enough to handle it

i freaking hated my man when i was pregnant (17 yrs ago) and he still brags about how good i was those 9 months. is there ever a happy medium?

Answer 6

You are not a psycho.  Your bf is a freakin jerk - plain and simple.

What a prick for treating you like that!  I wouldn't give him any more until after the baby is born.  I would be very mad at him if I were you - hold your ground and see if he makes up to you first.

Answer 7

Of course ur not a psycho the only psycho there is him. He might sexually frustrated BUT that's no way to treat u.