Why are modern women so obsessed with orgasms?

Question

Nowadays, these girls are obsessed with having an o****m every time. The v****a does not have many nerve endings, it was meant to be a birth canal.

In the olden days, women only selflessly thought about satisfying their husbands and keeping their marriage partner happy. They saw it as their duty and did it out of

LOVE for their husband's happiness. Todays' women are selfish and always talk about "please me !" " please me !"

What caused this turn around ? Too much s*x on TV ?

Answer 1

Women aren't "obsessed" with having an o****m, its something I'm sure women always wanted, but now it's more acceptable to talk about it and express that they want. And I venture to guess that most men are eager to help them out with that.

Women "selflessly thought about satisfying their husband and keeping their marriage partner happy"?? And now they are selfish and all about "please me, please me"?? Sounds to me like you don't want to do a whole lot of work, and if you LOVED your partner, you would want to help her achieve o****m if that's something she wanted. And if to you, a v****a is basically just a masturbatory tool, maybe you should just use your hands and forget about being with a woman.

PS: Female o****m is almost NEVER achieved by way of the v****a.

You don't know too much about these things, do you?

Answer 2

If s*x is not fun why do it?

In the olden days beating your wife was acceptable and that was a minor consequence of pissing off the male, death or abandonment where also available.

The romance period in the dark ages gave upper class women strange ideas of their worth. Those ideas have slowly spread through all levels of Western society. No it was not TV.

Answer 3

Dear, you are slightly confused.  In the old days, men never cared if they satisfied a woman, it was and in many cases, still is, all about the man.  Unless a woman was luck enough to have a man who knew how to satisfy a woman, all she could do was satisfy her man.  It wasn't an act of selflessness it was a case of ignorance.

Women want orgasms just like a man want to reach climax.  And why shouldn't they?  It's darn frustrating to get half way there, your partner reaches climax and the deed is done.  IT"S INCREDIBLY FRUSTRATING!!!

Women began taking their sexuality very seriously back in the 60's.  Probably long before that if they were smart or had great communication with their man.

Again, why shouldn't a woman reach o****m?

Answer 4

same reason us guys are obsessed with s*x

cuz it feels good

but most women arnt obsessed they prefer one

its if u have a small d**k ur screwed

Answer 5

Who cares? Having s*x with a woman only ONE time will solve that problem. What's she gonna chase you down? -- Never give her your real number. Do her at her place. Get in, get yours, then get out. Modern women have toys I guess, she can take care of the overtime herself if she so chooses.

Answer 6

ahaha a simple trolling question.

if the v****a was meant JUST for birth and not pleasure, which what we do use it as, then the same can be said about the p***s and well you don't even need to put the p***s in the v****a so let's just do away with s*x.

No thanks.

Answer 7

Sexual pleasure is very important to both partners equally.

And no, there isn't enough s*x on TV!!

Answer 8

I'm sorry...but if there's nothing in it for me, I'm less likely to perform or I might just do it half-a$$ed...

Don't get me wrong...I don't have to finish all the time, it can feel good without the climax, but fortunately my husband doesn't like to stop till I've got mine, so maybe you could learn a lesson from him.  I give him whatever he wants!  :)

Answer 9

Either you are a male chauvinist or a very backwards-thinking woman.

Answer 10

It's the fault of the media; s*x sells. Truth be told, the number of corrupted women is much, much lower than one would be led to believe; the silent majority of Americans don't live their lives like those "s*x and the city" women do...

It is likely to pass, however; things like this are unsustainable and come and go in cycles... it was up in the late 60's and 70's, down in the 80's and early 90's... and may be going down now...

I see that many feminist trolls have blasted you... I don't think that the people on this site are in any way representative of the population as a whole... and the people who answer questions in this category tend to be feminists anyway... so they have biased answers...

Answer 11

I'm not obsessed with orgasms.

Answer 12

Gee, you sound like a selfish man.

The Bible states that a husband and a wife are BOTH supposed to give freely to one another.  Husbands, not wives, are commanded to love their spouse as Christ loved the church.  Husbands are the ones that are expected to sacrifice for their wives.  Maybe you could try to be a bit more loving, and less selfish.

God bless!

Answer 13

"The v****a does not have many nerve endings, it was meant to be a birth canal. "

I was going to ask if you were a virgin when I saw the title and this has fully answered my question.

I suggest downloading a pdf file with photos and labels for all the parts of female anatomy and starting to learn from there... gotta start somewhere and at the rate you're going, you won't be finding out this information via any physical activity. Better luck next time, Trolly McTrollerson.

Answer 14

You are right, the v****a is for a birth canal. However the clitoris is made solely for sexual satisfaction. If women were not to have orgasms, which by the way make the world a better place, we would not have a clitoris....

Answer 15

Listen...if any man can give a woman an o****m GOD BLESS HIM!!!! Its not the easiest thing in the world to do..Ive had 5 partners and ive only had one give me an o****m!! Jesus we gather up the energy to have s*x after a long day, the least you can do is put your all into it!! WHAT IS WITH YOU SELFISH MEN THESE DAYS!!!!

Answer 16

Modern men don't care about orgasms? News to me lol.

Hon-there's a lot more than a v****a to work with-try out the women's health section for some info on the biology of a woman. Can't imagine a woman who ever dealt with you being "pleased" based on your extremely limited info about the female body!

Answer 17

Equality.  Women want the life men have.....in every aspect.

Answer 18

I do not understand your point.

I love giving her pleasure, its part of the fun. It makes me feel better plus makes her wild when she is giving me pleasure.

So thank God for women o****m.

Answer 19

What caused the turn around is the fact that we discovered that we're capable of having orgasms. But trust me, when the guy isn't satisfied, we aren't, either.

Answer 20

Chauvinism = Ignorance

Answer 21

Oh compared to men such as yourself?! What's all this talk about take take take, you need to give something too bub. Stop being selfish and stupid, women have just as much right to pleasure as men. If all men were like you, I'd happily remain celibate. Thankfully many men revel in making someone else feel good, whether by physical or emotional factors. Yay nice men! Boo stupid men! Women like orgasms like men like orgasms, deal with it, it's not complex.

Answer 22

Why are men so obsessed with o****m?  Why can't they satisfy their wives and keep the marriage happy?

Answer 23

Shouldn't the goal be to make your women have not just one but multiple orgasms?  Just a thought.  I find pleasure in pleasing a women...that's just my take.

Answer 24

"Why are modern women so obsessed with orgasms?"

Thanks for making me snort red wine out my nose. Oh...no! Those selfish women! Wanting orgasms! What next? Will they want food other than bread and water? Water? Air?

Wow...I wonder what girl is going to catch a "prize" like you in the future. Here's to her [raises glass]. She'll need it.

Answer 25

You're right. God forbid someone would actually want to receive pleasure from a pleasurable activity. We should cut off their clitorises and then we wouldn't have to worry about this problem.

Answer 26

Jeez, you have a lot to learn, or, a lot to catch up on.

Actually the v****a does have nerve endings. In fact the entire female body is covered in sexual nerve endings. And the purpose of a man is to actually please a woman.

You need to change your mind set. You say the word 'nowadays' as if you are an older man going for younger women. And you sound very old school. Wise up.

Answer 27

Yup. Women want everything. Getting old.

Answer 28

A woman's obsession with orgasms comes from  the lack of orgasms.  Perhaps  you should  please her. Viola! Obsession cured.

Answer 29

they are obsessed because it feels good

and the v****a has twice as many nerve endings as the head of the p***s

also, the clitoris is the only thing in the human anatomy that has no other function besides pleasure

Answer 30

For starters, woman DO have nerves down there. Have you not heard of the Clitoris.

Clitoris is  a small bump about the size of a pea near the top of where the two inner “lips” – the labia minora – come together. The clitoris is very sensitive to touch and is a source of pleasurable feelings during sexual intercourse. In fact, its sole function appears to be to produce sexual pleasure in a woman.

Now, if you follow the definition above, you will notice it is sensitive to touch, JUST LIKE A p***s IS!!! It has actually been proven, girls and guys start developing the same way, and many things are just undeveloped things. The clitoris is like the head of the p***s, the v****a is an inverted p***s, which will either turn into a p***s if the baby is a guy or stay like it is if it is a girl in the womb. Just because you are hipocritical, discrimitive guy doesn't mean anything you think is true. What caused this turn around? It's called information Highway, girls finally find out they can have what guys have.

Answer 31

You're a FREAK!

And dont deserve a woman's company.

Perhaps try for a man.

You dislike women so much, it MUSTbe what you actually want!!