and why do they seem to think its a virtue... of some sort... as if they think its something to pride themselves by?
alot of the time they complain that men arent good listeners (which they may not be) but i am. they dont listen either... youd be debating or arguing or just talking... and trying to find a solution to a problem... i would say something but they would respond with a response that had nothing to do with what i had just said.
ill use my mother as a prime example:
me - mom this dish washer isn working i think its coz some of the plates are too big and the motor isnt spining coz its being blocked by the plates
mother - (without even hearing or listening to what i said) no its coz its dirty, ill clean it.
TWO WEEKS LATER
mother - I KNOW WHY... these plates are too big.
and even when they do listen, they wont do or take the advise you give them.
i know all women arent like this, but it seems most think that being narrow minded and stubborn are... good things to be.
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