Why are my parents always fighting!?

Question

my parents are always fighting, and no matter what i do nothing seems to go right. how can i stop being so depressed?

Answer 1

i think you should move out as possible

Answer 2

o its hard when others u care about fight i no u want to stop them and i no its hard so things to do,

1. dont blame ur self

2. when they fight you enter the room and talk to them and change the subject.

3. let them resolve it

GL hope everything works out for you

ps if they divorse dont get to depressed youll find out wen your older about how hard relationships are :P

Answer 3

Talk to your parents about it.  Hopefully they can work things out.

Answer 4

sorry to hear about that, have you tried talking to them, tell them your really upset by there behaviour!

take yourself of if it kicks off again, not that you should have too, but it might take your mind of it alittle and you will not get annoyed by all the shouting etc...

good luck

Answer 5

You need to talk to your parents when they are alone. It could be just a phase for them, I know it's embarrassing. Talk to other family members get them to talk to your parents or even talk with a teacher or principal. Chances are they will think you are the cause of them fighting if you interfere alone. Give more information like the cause of arguments, what are they fighting about.

Answer 6

Sorry that sucks for you. About all you can do is wait it out until you're old enough to move out of the house.

Answer 7

Cassie, this is your parents' problem to iron out.  I noticed that you said,"no matter what I do..."

Let yourself off the hook.  What you are doing has little, if any, impact on this situation.

Don't despair!  Marriages often go through rough water off and on.  Marriage is tough and not for the faint at heart.  Hopefully your parents are made of strong stuff and will be able to pull through.  No matter the outcome though, do not lay the blame at your own feet.  Only they can choose the path they take, you cannot lead their lives for them - nor they for you.

Good luck!

Answer 8

You need to realize that their fighting is not your fault and not your issue. Put your ipod on and turn it up full blast. No matter what happens, you will be alright because you are a strong person.

Answer 9

your parents are fighting because, they are discussing stuff, and some times one of the parents think their right and the other ones wrong. but usually they work it out. if this becomes serious than it could lead to having your parents go to divorce.

to stop this, you should make your moms work or your dads work a little bit easier for them. and be very nice to them. and also be honest with them. i hope your parents get better. good luck

Answer 10

you are not responsable for your parents issues with each other.  there are most likely problems they are not telling you about.  but unfortunaly this stress is affecting you.  you really need to sit down with the one you are most comforable talking openly with,  tell them what you are seeing and hearing..tell them how their fighting is making you feel...let them know that you are aware that they may be hiding tensions from you but they are not doing a good job of it.  you wil stop feeling so overwelmed and depressed when you have let someone know how you feel...have you ever heard the expression "confessions is good for the soul"?  confess your fears and they will lessen because they are shared.

Answer 11

The fact that your parents always fight is not because of anything you have done. I know it's very hard to hear that the two people you love most in this world, always argue. They've forgotten why they fell in love in the beginning. Parents get busy with work and other responsibilities and forget to take time for each other. It hurts me that this is hurting you so much. You're probably such a great kid. You don't deserve to hear this all the time. Just remember you can't change it and you don't cause it. Put your ipod in your ear and listen to music instead of listening to them. It's very difficult!  

Answer 12

Your own happiness should not be based upon the happiness of others. Don't worry about your parents fighting; this may sound harsh, but that's their problem. Talk to a friend or other family member whom you trust. Tell someone about it who's not on the internet.