Why are my parents treating my little brother differently when it comes to dating?

Question

First off i am not jealous or anything like some people like to say on here. I am 28 years old, married with a child.

Anyhow my parents has 7 kids (6 girls/1 boy)all of which are over 18 except my 13 year old brother....

They would not allow us to date until we were 16 and we were not allowed to go to the guys house either which i am glad my parents were like that with us....No teenage pregnancies for us...But why is it they are letting my brother do what he wants, he is going to his "girlfriends house" and she is coming to his home..

It is like they are thinking well if he gets some girl pregnant then it would be no biggie but they dared us to end up like that..So why are they treating him differently??

(By the way his girlfriend is hot acting, sucking hickies on his neck, he is asking my mom for condoms) If i were to have went on like that when i was 13 i would have been whooped.....

I don't get it at all...

Answer 1

Confront your mother and father with tier HYPOCRISY and tell them they have gooten SOFT in their old age.Youir brother can STILL knock up some 13 yr old teenage hoochie and then what?Are THEY going to raise the kid?How about he makes 6 kids before he is 18,are they going to raise them all?

Condoms do NOT protect from herpes and  it is questionable about aids.They ALSO have a failure rate.You can also talk to the girls parents about the hickies and stuff.If you can pry their heads out of their butts long enough for them to listen.

Answer 2

no offense but your parents are really sexist.

thats the problem.

Answer 3

Tell your mother that what she's doing is hypocritical.

I see this a lot when it comes to large age-gaps with kids. Parents sometimes are strict on their eldest but years later after their oldest kids are adults and they have more, they tend to loosen up. It could be due to their being tired out and having less energy to enforce rules.

Still, it's no excuse and you need to confront your mother for her sake and your brother's.

Answer 4

parents tend to let loose on rules when it comes down to the younger children...i think they need a wake-up call if he is doing these things at such a young age and maybe you are the one to give it to them

Answer 5

Last kid. They think they should change there ways since he is the last babe.

Answer 6

it's because he's a guy and can't get pregnant.

my family is the same with my little brother.