Why are parent's so annoying?

Question

my parents argue every day!

Answer 1

I would like to apologize on behalf of all annoying parents out there.  We forget sometimes that your comfort and emotional well being exist on a higher plane and that we should never risk disturbing that with our discussions of real life.  Our weakness is an embarassment and we hope someday to evolve into better, more enlightened versions of ourselves.  If only we could attain the wisdom of our children......without whom our lives would have no purpose.  Please humor us and forgive our ignorance until the day comes that.......I don't know..........you can feed and clothe yourself and maybe remember to brush your teeth before you go to sleep so that your breath doesn't reek while ruining all of that expensive dental work we've worked and payed for??????  Do your homework and be grateful, genius.

Answer 2

i know, i think most parent's argue all the time too, its like as kids we could settle their disputes easily and they sometimes act childish. I guess the best you can do is talk to each one separately and express your concerns and help them come up with a way to resolve these stupid quarrels.

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Answer 3

They're not.  They just seem to be.  The fact is that no one will ever love you or care for you or be there as much as your folks.  Thru thick and thin they will stand by you.  So they may ask a lot of questions or give their "stupid" opinions or treat you like you don't know anything....But it's just them trying to love, support and help you.  Believe me, one day you'll be really really happy you had parents who gave a c**p and annoyed you so much!

Answer 4

It doesn't make sense, but some people communicate this way.  They might not know how to talk to one another without arguing.  My former in-laws were like that and they drove me crazy with it.  They usually weren't even mad at each other, that was just how they communicated.

As I said, it doesn't make sense to me!

Answer 5

it is our job to be annoying... ( but not to argue everyday).. sorry you have to hear that.. tell them it hurts you to hear them argue....

Answer 6

Because they have a teenaged kid and teenagers are self-centered and expensive and think the world owes them something.

Your parents argue because they are human.  Give them a break.

Answer 7

Because they are getting old, and tried of their spouse trying to be the boss.

Answer 8

I wouldn't say parents are annoying when they fight. I'd say it is wrong to fight in front of the kids. Parents shouldn't fight in front of kids. It is wrong, scares the children & upsets the kids no matter what age they are.

My mom is verbally abusive & growing up heard her yelling put downs to my father all the time. It hurt me something awful, upset me and also made me angry. Even though I'm an adult it still affects me the same way when I heard her down whether it is over the phone or in front of me.

It is hard to suggest what to do when this happens. I use to put on music and listen to it through earphones. It drowns it out.

Take a walk, go into another room and whatever you can do so you get away from it.

Maybe your parents will be smart and see how wrong this is. Sadly mine weren't.

Answer 9

do they argue or is it discussing?  because sometimes discussing sounds like arguing.. it is very common..

parents agree to disagree.. but they shouldnt be doing it in front of you..  

Answer 10

because they miss the days of NOT having any kids to argue about~jk

it's what parents do, i remember mine arguing all the time, as long as they didn't argue with me i was good!  that's what headphones are for.

Answer 11

is just yours.

Answer 12

When they've passed away from this life you'll give anything to hear them arguing in the next room again, appreciate people while you have them, even if they do have annoying habits.  

Answer 13

Ask them to stop fighting in front of you. If they try to deny that they're fighting and use terms like discussing/bantering like my parents do, tell them it doesn't matter whether they think it's fighting or not. It matters that you do. Unbelievably, they probably don't even realize it bothers you because they're too caught up in their own arguments. God, it's annoying, though. It's like they had their chance.

Answer 14

That is thier habit and thier way.  Not much you can do but try and be happy and tell them little things about looking over the others faults.

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Answer 15

It is called working it out. Some people can work it out without screaming.